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Blogs > vibrantfungirl > My Blog

Friendship  

vibrantfungirl 47F
11 posts
9/5/2008 9:31 pm
Friendship

Ok, I have been on this site for a year now, and thought it a good time to let out a bit of steam. I love the friendships I've made here. But there is something that concerns me. I am one of the most loyal people you will meet, but also very honest. For instance; everyone I talk to regularly knows that I flirt and tease, but I'm not here to hook up, or what have you. MY honesty, and my mouth have gotten me in trouble a few times, but I really try to be low key. The thing is; it drives me up a wall when people dump friendships be they long time or short, over misunderstandings. Why is it so hard to talk things out, and if nothing else; find a way to compromise? Nine times out of ten, you will find that what you thought, was not reality at all. Especially on the internet; its all about perception, but if you don't give the person a chance to clarify, then you are really doing yourself as well as them an injustice. I also think if you are willing to dump a friendship without talking things out, then maybe its time you did some soul searching of your own. What kind of person dumps friendships? Sometimes, even without a word or explanation, sometimes because someone "thought" something was said or done, that was most likely not, just taken out of context. And as for me, if you dump my friendship, then I will assume it wasn't meant to be, but if you want to regain my trust, it has to start with an apology. I will NOT go on as though nothing happened. I may be loyal, but I'm not a doormat.

SrGeekBoy 56M
15 posts
9/23/2008 8:33 am

 For what its worth? I value your friendship. Your an awesome lady!

HUGGGGS!


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
9/25/2008 9:31 am

 I have always wondered WHY people do NOT communicate. Giving someone the silent treatment is wrong on ALL levels. No one can fix, explain, or do anything if you do NOT know what the trouble is. It is childish and immature to think we all have ESP and will miraculously figure out what we did and then beg for absolution. SORRY.. real and TRUE friends don't do that shit.

COMMUNICATION IS ESSENTIAL IN ALL THINGS IN LIFE.

If you talk and it can't be worked out then I can see walking away.


larryluv1123 64M

6/2/2009 7:51 pm

 somtimes life can be cruel led by false perceptions and deceits yet it is what is and nothing else care of larryluv at the dawgpound


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