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Blogs > whitewhife4black > Vanilla Lady Loves Chocolate

Married, white, love my chocolate! May be interested in a DOM,  

whitewhife4black 72F
314 posts
5/1/2010 7:46 am

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8/6/2010 3:34 am
Married, white, love my chocolate! May be interested in a DOM,

Recently changed the introduction to the profile.

This DOM/sub thing has Carol all a flutter. She is both excited as hell by the idea as well as scared shitless that she might be getting into something beyond her control.

So, one thing is for sure... anytime she agrees to meet someone on this DOM/sub topic, she wants me to be her safety net and be in the room the whole time.

Although she definitely loves her private one on one sessions, a good compromose is for her to don her recently purchased blindfold. She has already told me that when she wore it the other day, she literally got so consumed by the event that she forgot I was there.

Of course, we have definitely run into guys who are a bit too nervous to do their thing with her when I am there which is one of the reasons she usually takes her guest up to the bedroom for privacy. However, I suspect a true DOM may even be more into having the husband watch as he takes control of her.

I simply have no idea where (or how far) she is willing to take this. I know that pain or real humilation or extreme forcefulness isn't in the card, ever!

In case you are interested... where is my interest in all this? Guess it is a part of my own DOM leanings to see Carol virtually owned by another man in my presence. Weird huh?

ralphd99 63M

7/29/2010 8:38 pm

 I truly enjoy the discussions about the Dom/sub environment. It is a matter of control, trust and respect. The sub knows and trusts that the Dom respects the limits of the encounter. She gives total control to the Dom and trusts him that what he does is controlling to him but not to hurt his partner. She simply wants to give to him her all. I have wrist bands to go with cuffs so that no marks will be left, or use silk scarves. I would like very much to attend one of the parties in the area.


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