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And your point is?  

whitewhife4black 72F
314 posts
4/17/2010 4:50 am

Last Read:
4/19/2010 9:02 am

And your point is?


About 8 years ago, when we were just getting back into the lifestyle after several years away from it... we discovered a swingers site called (probably get in trouble for naming it).

When we joined it, the site was really top shelf however a few years ago, the original founder sold his interest and this site has noticibly lost members ever since. Were it not for the fact that in 2002 we were able to join as 'life time' members for $99 one time... I am sure we would have stopped using it a long time ago.

Anyway, that site like some others allows it's members to post private galleries of images that you can grant access to other members if desired. The obvious usage for us of course was that we could use a private gallery to easily allow someone to see a face shot while still having public (yet non-identifiable) images than any lurker or wannabee lifestyler and see. One other usage we have seen for private galleries is when the member is into something specific such as interracial, they keep those shots in the private gallery. And, yet others have your standard fully clothed images public and use the private gallery for the pussy, dick, and tit shots.

Our usage was that once we started exchanging emails with someone clsoe enough to be a potential meet, and some 'trust' was starting to develop, then we would grant access to those photos which all had Carol's face in both solo shots as well as action pics.

This morning, something that seemed to have started about a year ago on that site occurred. We got an email from someone miles away (like 400 miles), whom we never contacted nor who had ever contacted us before. It was a granting of access to their private gallery.

Why?

Often, the people who do this have virtually no differences between their public and private galleries. Face pics on both, pussy, dick, and tit shots in both... in fact no reason to even have a 'private, invitiation only' gallery at all.

Now, if you have a charitable heart, you might conclude that these people are so interested in your own profile that they wanted to establish an instant repore with us. But, typically and this morning was no exception... all we received was the automated email stating that the member had granted access to their private gallery. No accompanying email, no instant messaging... just offering us... well NOTHING considering that their private gallery was the same stuff as their public one.

The only possibly assumption is that they HOPE we will return the favor and just grant access to them to our private stash.

I suppose it is all about picture collecting. Which... I see as what is the point? There is far better looking eye candy online than most of us 'common people' people are capable of presenting and if it is the thrill of seeing people who are not professional models or porn stars... well, there is only about a million or two of those online and amature videos out there that there simply isn't a need to solicit more.

So, can someone else explain it to me?

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