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I'm white... do I have a chance?
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I'm white... do I have a chance? Basically... NO. But not 100% impossible! There are several points I want to make here that relate to the subject of Carol having an encounter with someone who is white. 1) It isn't skin color that is the primary motivation... it is personality and how she connects with you first on the phone and then subsequently in person. 2) However, the most important factor is scheduling. Carol plays an average of once a week. Work schedules, health issues (she is diabetic), and existing 'friends with benefits' control her availability. 3) Given her availability to meet and play, she usually goes with her preferences. It's like when you go out to dinner... you usually pick a favorite resturant and usually order the same dish. You do this because you are more confident that you won't be disapointed and also because going out to a resturant for dinner is simply something you can't do EVERY DAY. If her schedule (and desires) permitted much more opportunities for her to play, then she would be more likely to try a 'different' resturant or even choose somethinfg different from the menu. 4) More on preferences... at this point in her life, she has been with more black men than white. And, in recent years... virtually exclusive with black men. She has reached a point where she states herself that she is simply more comfortable in the arms of a black man than a white man. 5) Sometime ago, I noticed that whenever we happen to be setting around the house and she happens to make a comment on how handsome a man is or how pretty a lady is... it ALWAYS was also true that the person was black. So, it definitely isn't the taboo breaking that excites her. She is physically attracted to black men. I have no doubts that were I to kill myself in a car accident, that if she re-married... it would be an interracial marriage.  But, I have no plans on running off the road anytime soon.6) The way black men treat white ladies... it is a definite fact that on average, black men put the lady's pleasure before there own. Not sure is black women feel the same way about how black men treat them.. frankly, I've heard that one of the reasons black ladies like white guys is that they tend to do the same thing... make them feel as if it is all about THEM as opposed to the man's pleasures. 7) Stamina and size... again, this tends to favor the black men on average. She is definitely NOT a size queen and if you are too large... she is uncomfortable especially if the man doesn't put in enough warm-up time and take it slow and easy to start.  Skin color, skin textures... yes, there is a certain amount of pleasure in the contrast. One of the things that has really changed with Carol over the years is her level of enjoyment in holding a man's penis and giving him a massage. When the man is black, it really ADDS to her pleasure in being with him.9) Taboo breaking... definitely not at the top of her list of turn-ons but obviously it adds a certain additional level of excitement. One thing I have noticed of late is that historically... Carol was VERY concerned about being seen 'in the company' of a black man. This was especially true here in our local town where the likelyhood of running into an aquaintance was higher. So, most often, if she accepted a 'public' date with someone... she at least made it for Greensboro or Raleigh instead of here in Burlington. But, this seems to be changing significantly. But, it is still true however, that if you want to have PDA (public displays of affection)... your better off taking her out of town. 10) Acceptance... this is an interesting topic and one that really surprised us. It seems as though quite often, a black man is far more comfortable with the idea that she is married. Read our blog entry about 'Klaus'. Sometimes, Carol goes out to a local nightclub and 'pretends' to be alone and allows guys to try to pick her up. Usually, I'm somewhere in the club enjoying the show from a distance and we exchange text messages to each other during the course of the evening to let each other know what is happening when she spends ome time chatting with a guy who has approached her. Just an FYI on this... to avoid a repeat of the 'Klaus' story... our 'method' when she is out like this (we call it hunting in the wild)... she makes the decision on the spot whether she tells the man whether she is married, where I am, that we have an 'open relationship', whether she brings him over to meet etc. If she thinks this would be too much for the guy... she will simply go 'solo' and just make it a one night stand. So, in conclusion... if you are WHITE... if your profile or your email message hits me in the right mood... I will inform Carol about it. 9 times out of 10, she won't be interested in pursuing the idea. You're probably FAR more likely to hook up with her under one of these 3 situations: 1) It is at a party where you can get 'face time' with her. 2) You happen to meet her on some night when she is out at the club and again, have the chance of spending some time chatting and flirting. 3) The most likely... if you are part of a couple. She sometimes meets couples for MF/MF encounters. She has a couple of her black male friends who are 'authorized' to be her 'play' partner when meeting a couple. So, if you are a white male... and especially if your partner is white and she is into black men also... go ahead and contact us and suggest a 'couples' encounter.  |
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