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Blogs > whitewhife4black > Vanilla Lady Loves Chocolate

I need to be descreet because I'm married.  

whitewhife4black 72F
314 posts
10/25/2008 3:50 am

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8/17/2013 2:17 am
I need to be descreet because I'm married.

Does being married destroy your chances of being with Carol? No... it doesn't... however... she prefers single guys simply because they are more reliable when scheduling a meeting. Wives and girl friends often inadvertentaly make demands on the man's time and at the last minute and this leads to no-shows.

Also, she doesn't really LIKE the idea of letting a man CHEAT on his woman. But, she realizes that it is BETTER for a married man to be with a woman like Carol simply because she isn't out there to steal him away from his wife.

And, there is always the concern that the man will be careless and get caught! That has definitely happened and we have gotten a couple of phone calls from irate (or worse... CRUSHED) women wanting to know why he has her number on his cell phone. And, worse still... the woman following her husband and showing up at the door... with her shotgun!

One of the benefits of being in the lifestyle as a 'couple' is that WE DON'T CHEAT ON EACH OTHER. We understand that sex can be simply recreational and if everyone is on the same page, then it is just a way of having fun and getting to know someone better. It doesn't need to have ANY effect upon how a man feels about his wife. We think it is the most stupid thing in the world for a couple to get into an argument and even split up just because somebody fucked someone else.

whitewhife4black 72F
144 posts
11/1/2008 6:14 am
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Reliability is KEY... once it becomes suspect, she tends to make plans elsewhere. Last minute cancellations are ALMOST as bad as no-shows. ANd, she will perhaps put up with one re-scheduling.. but, if it happens twice... well, her schedule doesn't support being 'left at the alter'.


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