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Blogs > whitewhife4black > Vanilla Lady Loves Chocolate

Kiss me Baby!  

whitewhife4black 72F
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10/25/2008 3:26 am

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5/3/2012 5:58 pm
Kiss me Baby!
It is not uncommon that couples when they initially get into the lifestyle, get together and discuss what is allowed and what isn't. We certainly did and continue to habe this discussion now and then even though we have been in the lifestyle for many years.

It is ironic that one of the most common taboos is the act of kissing. Despite the fact that your in bed FUCKING... and have just done 69 to start things off... Kissing is often considered TOO initimate an activity and lifestylers frequently reserve that activity to only when they are with each other.

It's also not uncommon for working girls to have the same attitude about kissing their Johns.

I guess it has to do with keeping something 'sacred'... I know that Carol and I had that discussion and we felt that it was somehow off-limits to kiss our bed-partners. It's a decision that I wish we hadn't made.

The lips are biologically configured to provide excitement that is meant to be the prelude to intercourse. Sex after heavy kissing is ALWAYS more enjoyable.

With Carol, she got so out of the habit of kissing her partners that now it is difficult for her to change so one thing I want to encourage the guys who meet her to do is to spend serious time kissing her before you let things go further. But, I want to also warn you about how Carol looks at kissing. If you start off by shoving your tongue down her throat, she will definitely back off. She says... the lips are like the pussy... they need to be warmed up before penetration. You need to start with just minimal 'pecks'... let these lead to more initimate pressing of the lips between you. In fact, let her lead the way to open mouth kissing. One of her most pleasent experiences in the lifestyle was one where we met a guy and she say with him... it was a public place but in a very private area of that place... and they started kissing. She spent nearly an hour making out with him like a couple of teenagers in the backseat of the car.

Kissing on the ear and neck and sholders is also quite stimulating for her and she is far more willing to let this happen however if you REALLY want her to get the most out of your encounter with her... control the situation and start REAL kisses slowly and keep that up for as long as you can.

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