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Blogs > whitewhife4black > Vanilla Lady Loves Chocolate

Saw an intersting email exchange...  

whitewhife4black 72F
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10/23/2008 5:27 am
Saw an intersting email exchange...

Saw an intersting email exchange within one of the local Yahoo groups we are members of.

Seems one of the guys was all frustrated about the level of activity within the group and was asking if there are any REAL women out there.

There were some replies... about what you would suspect given the ratios in place on these groups however the conversation got into the concept of ladies wanting MORE than just a fuck. By that, I mean being taken out for an evening, just hanging out together and spending time, etc.

The lady who mentioned this happened to have a Yahoo id that could be pronounced along the lines of slut for Black Dick and one of the guys ponced on her comments saying that maybem she ought to be over at one of the romance and dating sites such as eHarmony and such.

Guys... obviously some of you simply don't get it that women have different agendas and are not turned on simply by the fact that you have a dick! They LOVE being romanced and treated the way they assume you would treat a lady you happened to meet in a non-swinging environment. Comments like "Hey, I'm Bill... when can we fuck?" is NOT going to excite them nor is it going to put you at the top of their list for spending ANY time with.

Carol is the same way... she wants to be 'seduced'! Women are all about romance. Give them a little and they will not only meet, but by being in the 'lifestyle'... fucking is pretty much a non-issue. They will! But, you as the guy need to put seduction into play just to get the meet and then you have to give them the 'foreplay' of being treated like you would a lady NOT in the lifestyle.

You have to spend time either exchanging email messages or chatting on the phone. Let the lady build an interest in YOU because the 'dicks' are quite easy for them to find when that is the top item on their list. Make them want YOU first... make them think YOU are special... make them want to spend TIME with YOU and you'll get your pussy.

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