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Why?  

toothysmile 57M
9181 posts
2/22/2012 7:33 am

Last Read:
1/11/2016 2:55 am

Why?

Why?...

Why do we always end up hurting the most the ones we love the most?...

Somebody tell me please.
Because I don't fucking understand it.




Opus_of_a_liar 47F

2/22/2012 9:31 am

? I am confused.

Love is tricky, Toothy. You know that.


rm_4jasmine2 53F
10698 posts
2/22/2012 10:23 am

You seem to be hurting - sorry man! Everyone has said what I would say, so all I can say is... here is a huge hug for you!

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sandpearls 55F
1454 posts
2/22/2012 1:23 pm

Sometimes it is inevitable.
Sometimes it is them hurting not us hurting them because of a certain way we act or react towards them and they expect a different behaviour from us.
Sometimes it takes two for the pain to be.
Sometimes we just have to bite down on our lip and take the pain we too feel when we hurt them.
Sometimes....
Hugs


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
2/22/2012 2:16 pm

Because when we love we lower our defences and become oh so vulnerable. Hugs my friend.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 6:59 am

    Quoting  :

lasttrainhome37
yes. that is pretty much how it is. thank you!

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:00 am

    Quoting Opus_of_a_liar:
    ? I am confused.

    Love is tricky, Toothy. You know that.
Opus_of_a_liar
ha! you can say that again...

thanks ms. opus.
filia.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:01 am

    Quoting  :

lioness860
wise words my dear lioness. thank you.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:03 am

    Quoting  :

MargotRegina79
yes. only this time it was me doing the hurting. probably because i felt too vulnerable...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:04 am

    Quoting  :

MargotRegina79
thanks. it was a while ago, not recently... you are a friend.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:05 am

    Quoting rm_4jasmine2:
    You seem to be hurting - sorry man! Everyone has said what I would say, so all I can say is... here is a huge hug for you!
4jasmine2
i am fine now, thank you... can i still get the hug?... please?...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:08 am

    Quoting julie001112:
    When we open our heart to someone it can lead to many wonderful things, but with that it can lead us to such pains like never before.

    I think we hurt the ones that love us because we feel safe with them, that they will forgive us.

    No matter what any of us say right now, it will not take away your pain. FOr that I am truly sorry my dear friend. Sending you warm big hugs from Joisey.
julie001112
wise words my dear julie... the pain eventually subsides, it's a matter of time. sometimes sooner, sometimes later but in the end it does...

don't be sorry, i am a big boy. there are much worse things that could happen.
thank you for always being there for me, it means a lot...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:12 am

    Quoting sandpearls:
    Sometimes it is inevitable.
    Sometimes it is them hurting not us hurting them because of a certain way we act or react towards them and they expect a different behaviour from us.
    Sometimes it takes two for the pain to be.
    Sometimes we just have to bite down on our lip and take the pain we too feel when we hurt them.
    Sometimes....
    Hugs

"sometimes it takes two for the pain to be"...
it almost always takes two, doesn't it?... anyway, thank you dear sandie...
filakia


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:13 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    Because when we love we lower our defences and become oh so vulnerable. Hugs my friend.

sexysixties2
thanks sweetie, i am fine now...
kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:14 am

    Quoting  :

liminalkyss
well, in this case it was me doing the hurting... although that probably hurt almost as much... and i'm fine now, thanks...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:16 am

    Quoting  :

justforfun5356
exactly. if you don't care, it doesn't matter... thanks sweetie.
kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:17 am

    Quoting  :

MzBonBon527
yes. what one does about it makes all the difference... thanks MzBB...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/23/2012 7:19 am

    Quoting  :

mmss1977
oh, i've already moved on, or else i wouldn't be posting this... and this time it was me doing the hurting... but that hurts as well, doesn't it?...

thanks mmss
filakia


rm_4jasmine2 53F
10698 posts
2/23/2012 11:54 am

    Quoting toothysmile:

    4jasmine2
    i am fine now, thank you... can i still get the hug?... please?...

    kisses.

Anytime! Always!!

Something interesting in my life: A surprise on my naked body this morning
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Just_MsRoss 49F

2/23/2012 12:10 pm

I don't fucking understand it either, but it's too often the way *sigh*

Hugs to you... as much as you've said you no longer need them, I think I'd like getting my hands on you (thx for the excuse )

"I reject your version of reality & substitute my own"

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LustyTaurus 55M
21250 posts
2/23/2012 5:08 pm

Depending on the circumstances, the answer may be...because we can.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/24/2012 1:52 am

    Quoting Bang_44DDD:
    Because we can. Our dark side takes a bit of pleasure in it as well.

because we can? maybe... but there is no pleasure in it, i assure you.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/24/2012 1:53 am

4jasmine2
mmm... thanks. it feels good.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/24/2012 1:54 am

    Quoting  :

curioustap
thank you my dear gea. some things bring out the best in us. and the worst in us. we try to be better. but sometimes we fail.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/24/2012 1:56 am

    Quoting Just_MsRoss:
    I don't fucking understand it either, but it's too often the way *sigh*

    Hugs to you... as much as you've said you no longer need them, I think I'd like getting my hands on you (thx for the excuse )
Just_MsRoss
yep. it's hard to understand... but hey, now i have something to look forward to.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/24/2012 1:58 am

    Quoting LustyTaurus:
    Depending on the circumstances, the answer may be...because we can.
LustyTaurus
like the story about why dogs lick their balls?...

thank you, my friend...


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