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CFNM...  

toothysmile 57M
9181 posts
2/10/2012 3:45 am

Last Read:
8/28/2018 5:35 am

CFNM...

cfnm...

I have come across a few videos lately... They can be found on the various porn sites. And they have made me wonder...

They go by various names. In England they are called stagette parties (a stag night is the English equivalent of a bachelor party) or worse yet, hen nights. In the US they are called bachelorette parties or in the more modern lingo, CFNM. Clothed females nude males. In some cases they apparently celebrate the occasion of someone's birhtday...

Now, I am far from being a prude. And almost never shocked when it comes to sexual stuff. I have had more than my share of naughty behavior. But in private. I have been to many bachelor parties. To be honest, they were always a bit boring. And at least in the ones I have witnessed, this is what happened. A bunch of us guys would go to a strip club. We would watch some girl strip, dance around the pole, whatever. We would cheer and clap. On some occasions, we would get lap dances. That is, the stripper would come and sit on our laps, dance and rub against us provocatively. But that's as far as it would go. Our hands would never touch her. Not in the danger zones anyway. Never a hand to a breast, let alone the pubic area. Needless to say, no kissing. She would get her tip, then would move to the next "lucky" fellow who would receive a lap dance. Eventually after a countless amount of alcohol had been consumed we would call it a night. In theory, some guys could actually arrange for a private meeting with a stripper later on. Where there would be full sexual activity. But in my vanilla world I have never seen that happen. During a bachelor party, that is! Outside of bachelor parties is another story...

Back to the CFNMs.

This is what I have seen. A stripper (usually dressed as a dancing bear or a cop) walks into a room full of dressed women. They vary in age. Some teenagers, some old enough to be their mothers. The stripper starts stripping. Admittedly all strippers have hot bods, all are well-endowed and none can keep the rhythm when they attempt to dance. After the stripper is naked he starts applying whipped cream on his body, his dick in particular... then asks the women to lick it off. He struts around... daring each CFNM participant. Granted, some women decline. But eventually a woman starts giving him a blowjob, often spurred on by the crowd. Then another takes her place. Then another. Then another... The crowd chants, "suck it, suck it" or "make him cum, make him cum"... What struck me is that the stripper sticks his dick into the mouths of these women sans condom. And eventually cums on someone's face and mouth. I assume that they have checked him for std's prior to inviting him. Yet, what impressed me the most is that the whole thing is videotaped then posted on the web for all to see.

No one seems to worry and everyone is having a great time. These are everyday women, often the entire female staff of an office. In fact, many such parties take place in the office after hours. Aren't these women worried that their husbands, boyfriends or, worse yet, their will watch them sucking a stripper's dick? Again, I am by no means passing judgement nor do I, in any way, condemn what they do. I am just puzzled. I will admit that I found these videos to be exciting. There was something ritualistic about them and you could see the inhibitions dropping... Still, I was surprised to see them so readily available on the net.

So I come to you with a few questions. And I hope you will enlighten me.

Have you ever attended such a party?
If so, did you actively participate?
If so, how far did you go? Handjob? Blowjob? Blowjob with cum? Full fucking? More?
Were you being videotaped while doing all this?
If so, did you mind?
Were you worried that someone would watch this? Or is this by now socially accepted behavior?

OK. I'll stop here even though I could ask a million more questions...
Thank you so much for indulging me once more...

As always. My love. My kisses.


~whispering~
now, i am very tempted to ask...
would you attend such a party if i were to strip?...
sshhhhh....
.
.
.


just_for_fun_877 39M
226 posts
2/10/2012 5:19 am

I was also wondering about that.. but most of all, what about the college rulz or daredorm vids... did I go to the wrong universities or what?
As far as your whispering question, I'd not only attend, I'd join you stripping... xexe
Cheers!

Pull my strings
Tease me, Please me
Tell me dirty little things...


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 5:44 am

    Quoting  :

buxombrunette21
ha... the guy actually gets paid to do this... in all fairness, some women are not as attractive as the one shown in this pic, but still...

ok, so no cfnm's in belfast, huh?... maybe we should start a business there, lol...

thank you my dear brunette.
kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 7:24 am

    Quoting just_for_fun_877:
    I was also wondering about that.. but most of all, what about the college rulz or daredorm vids... did I go to the wrong universities or what?
    As far as your whispering question, I'd not only attend, I'd join you stripping... xexe
    Cheers!

ha ha... i have to say that i went to the right college. there weren't any parties like that but then again there was no need to. i lived in a dormitory that housed more than 1000 boys and girls. do the math, the permutations are endless...

but this is different... it's a xxx-version of a girls night out... which is fine.

oh, and btw... in most of the vids i watched, there were at least two male strippers... so, i'd be very happy to have you join me!

thanks, my friend...


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 7:27 am

    Quoting  :

jules1590
yes... about the two guys in the hotel... it rings a bell...

now, i have another idea... involving a spanish place...

kisses. lots of them.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 7:28 am

    Quoting  :

justforfun5356

so, you want me all to yourself, huh?... ok, let me check my schedule, lol...

thanks.
kisses.


Opus_of_a_liar 47F

2/10/2012 8:11 am

I have never been to one of these and probably would never go to one. I have gone out with girlfriends who have gotten wild, but I was always the one wishing I could get the heck out of there or driving everyone else home. Eh, what can I say...

I doubt this is socially accepted behavior. But, what do I know? Nothing.

I about a year and half ago my husband took me to his friends bachelor party. (He wouldn't go without me.) There was a stripper. I have the photos. Somebody did go home with her. (Not us!) So, stuff does happen at these parties.

Well, Toothy, I never knew this existed. Thanks for spoiling my innocence.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 10:20 am

    Quoting Opus_of_a_liar:
    I have never been to one of these and probably would never go to one. I have gone out with girlfriends who have gotten wild, but I was always the one wishing I could get the heck out of there or driving everyone else home. Eh, what can I say...

    I doubt this is socially accepted behavior. But, what do I know? Nothing.

    I about a year and half ago my husband took me to his friends bachelor party. (He wouldn't go without me.) There was a stripper. I have the photos. Somebody did go home with her. (Not us!) So, stuff does happen at these parties.

    Well, Toothy, I never knew this existed. Thanks for spoiling my innocence.
Opus_of_a_liar
oops. sorry that i spoiled your innocense ms. opus... i think you once warned someone that i am the devil, didn't you?...

yes, i know that happens in bachelor parties, just didn't know it was being videotaped and shared...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 10:22 am

    Quoting  :

hippinky
well, i suspect there will be more and more of them... they seem to be very popular.

thanks hippy.
kisses.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
2/10/2012 3:27 pm

Ha, thanks for enlightening me about about "CFNM" stands for - I had seen it as a porn category and always wondered...

The videos that i've seen clearly look contrived - they are not a "real" situation, but rather a porn movie being shot to try to make it look like a real bachelorette party.

I'm not doubting that this might also happen in real life, but I would think most women would object to being videotaped.

Of course, look at all of the people who are stupid enough to post drunken lascivious pictures of themselves on fbook and not even secure their page to keep their employer from seeing it.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 4:12 pm

    Quoting  :

curioustap
i bet he was a great guy too. this isn't about the lifestyle, though, these women are probably outside the lifestyle. and the odd thing is that someone (presumably from the company that provides the strippers) videotapes them.

sex parties would be interesting...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 4:13 pm

    Quoting  :

curioustap
well, then, maybe you will...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 4:17 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Ha, thanks for enlightening me about about "CFNM" stands for - I had seen it as a porn category and always wondered...

    The videos that i've seen clearly look contrived - they are not a "real" situation, but rather a porn movie being shot to try to make it look like a real bachelorette party.

    I'm not doubting that this might also happen in real life, but I would think most women would object to being videotaped.

    Of course, look at all of the people who are stupid enough to post drunken lascivious pictures of themselves on fbook and not even secure their page to keep their employer from seeing it.

interesting. the ones i've seen did not look like porn movies at all, that was the impressive thing about them. perhaps i should send you the links, lol...
btw, the pic here is from one of them...
and yeah, if you post silly pics of yourself on bookface, then at least make them visible solely to close friends and not to clients/bosses etc. duh... i never cease to be amazed at what people do.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 4:56 pm

    Quoting  :

sexysixties
one on one it is then! thanks.
kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 4:58 pm

    Quoting  :

earthywoman3
i wish i could see his face when he saw the fork!... lol...

so, you'd want me to dance for you?...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 6:24 pm

    Quoting  :

liminalkyss
my thoughts exactly... but you can go to U porn (or any similar site), seacrh for 'cfnm party' and you'll find a whole bunch of such videos...
enjoy!... and tell me what you think...

thanks ms. limi.
kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/10/2012 6:38 pm

    Quoting  :

snugglebuni41
apparently all of us are ms. buni. or at least those who aren't haven't spoken up yet!
i am very intrigued by your love affair...

thanks.
kisses.


SoulsCompass 59M

2/11/2012 3:56 pm

That's it, if this man of mine wants to get married -- he must have you be the pinata, at my party!!

I hope this fad keeps continuing, is all I can say!!!


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/12/2012 6:28 am

    Quoting  :

Earthywoman3
it's a date!

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/12/2012 6:30 am

    Quoting  :

PussNBooties
really?...
well, private parties can be arranged too...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/12/2012 6:33 am

    Quoting  :

MargotRegina79
the ones i saw seemed real. and it seemed like the "company" that provided the strippers provided the cameraman as well... but, then again, what do i know?...
(actually, it might be worth a phone call and see what i can find out, lol...)

so...
you've done video, huh?... now, that's a film i would really want to watch...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/12/2012 6:39 am

    Quoting  :

MargotRegina79
well, yes, that struck me as well... i can assumme that the male escort service may be providing certified medical tests that the stripper is std-free but can you really trust a document like that?... i don't know...

unprotected oral sex is, as you know, one of my weaknesses... but of course, only with partners that i know very well and trust.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/12/2012 6:41 am

    Quoting SoulsCompass:
    That's it, if this man of mine wants to get married -- he must have you be the pinata, at my party!!

    I hope this fad keeps continuing, is all I can say!!!
SoulsCompass

well, i would only be too happy to oblige...

kisses.


sandpearls 55F
1454 posts
2/12/2012 2:33 pm

Are we forgetting what has been going on for years on the greek islands from tourists who book their holidays? The sex holidays they pay for? The only reason they come so to have sex, orgies, getting drunk and acting like animals?
I have seen real videos of promotion/incentive parties where the employees of companies are invited to sex parties (Germany, Austria, US, UK to name a few);a friend of mine was the camera man!
Incentive trips for hot shot company sales men (I wont name the companies here) with sex-prostitutes-orgies and what nots...
I am disgusted at what I have seen but am not surprised. It angers me but I feel good cos I know I would never be one of those women!


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
2/12/2012 7:58 pm

    Quoting sandpearls:
    Are we forgetting what has been going on for years on the greek islands from tourists who book their holidays? The sex holidays they pay for? The only reason they come so to have sex, orgies, getting drunk and acting like animals?
    I have seen real videos of promotion/incentive parties where the employees of companies are invited to sex parties (Germany, Austria, US, UK to name a few);a friend of mine was the camera man!
    Incentive trips for hot shot company sales men (I wont name the companies here) with sex-prostitutes-orgies and what nots...
    I am disgusted at what I have seen but am not surprised. It angers me but I feel good cos I know I would never be one of those women!

you are obviously referring to cavos in corfu and other such places. to be honest i don't mind that so much. for the most part they are kids who do stupid things... and i'm not talking about the sex part, i'm talking about drunken behavior.
it's probably part of sowing your wild oats...

this is something different. i think this is the evolution of the bachelorette party. i don't know. maybe it's "revenge' because the guys on their bachelor parties mess around with strippers?...

maybe it's a kind of ritual? that some women are brave enough to blow a guy in front of all their friends and co-workers?... i've watched some more clips out of curiosity.

i certainly don't pass judgement. anything among consenting adults is fine with me. and i am by no means a prude.

the thing that really impresses me is that they either don't mind these scenes being displayed on the internet or they are being taken for a ride. they definitely know that they are being filmed, they even give a thumbs-up to the camera guy...

and for the sake of precision and fairness, some women don't participate at all, they just watch...

thanks sandie...
kisses.


PerpetoMobile13 67F
3218 posts
2/13/2012 2:18 pm


Good God Man, I thought I've seen it all!!!
I cannot comment on this on the grounds that it might incriminate me...

On second thought - apparently, aside from the fact I've held onto my shockability factor quite well over the years on the web, I've watched way too much Disney...instead CFNM...

Hey, in my defense I'll admit that I've seen Chippendales in several occasions which will make me ignorant second stage, right...


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