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a brave guy...  

toothysmile 57M
9181 posts
12/3/2011 8:48 pm

Last Read:
2/3/2012 3:33 pm

a brave guy...

a brave guy...


I met her on a ship. On a typical Greek hot summer day. One of those long summers of our youth... We were both on our way to Athens from Sifnos, an island in the Aegean Sea. I was 17. She was 22. Danish. Not very tall. Nor too blond for that matter. After a month of sunbathing, I think my hair was in fact lighter than hers. But she had the wicked grin that totally caught my eye. We will call her Sunny. Sunny Feelgoodjanssen.

I just saw her sipping a drink. I smiled. I said "Hi". Very original, I know... But she smiled back. "Hi", she answered back. So I approached. Sat near her at the bar. We started talking about everything. Well, almost everything. But we talked about all the things we liked. Music. Movies. Traveling. Swiming, sunbathing, dancing. And by the end of the trip we were friends. Even though she was 5 years older. And for my part, I was determined to show her that I was more than what I really was: a high school . No. I was a man. And I could do what any 22-year-old could do!... Yep. I would hold my own.

She was going to spend a week in Athens. Alone. Which was music in my ears. Athens was my home town. I could show her around. All the cool places. All the sights. All the night life.

"Do you have a place to stay?", I asked casually as we were getting off the ship.
"No", she answered. "Why? Do you have any suggestions?"
"As a matter of fact I do", I said trying to act as cool as possible. "There is a small hotel not far from my home".
"Perfect, let's check it out", she replied.

During the next few days we became inseparable. She was of course far more experienced. Yet she always made me feel at ease. Perhaps because she appreciated my effort to step up my 'game'. To be mature. Which I probably was. Perhaps because she liked all the attention I was paying her. Perhaps because she enjoyed looking at herself through my eyes... Eyes admiring this exotic creature who had fallen from the skies to brighten my summer vacation. Perhaps because she was growing fond of this suntanned Greek who was trying to act her age, not his. Perhaps because even though I couldn't offer her all the luxuries that older men could give her, I was so enthusiastic about whatever little I could give her.

Halfway through her stay she looked at me with 'that' look. The look she always gave me when she didn't know how I would react to her suggestion. "You know, I like Greek food", she started, "but I've had as much moussaka and stuffed tomatoes as a girl can". "OK", I said cautiously. She continued,"There is this little Japanese restaurant around the corner. I just saw it".
"If that's what you want, then that's what we will do", I announced. A phrase that I used quite often when with her, as it turned out. And then it hit me. I had never been to any Japanese restaurants. Ever. In fact I knew very little about Japan, let alone japanese food. What did these people eat? I had no idea. But of course, I couldn't admit to that. I had risen to every challenge she presented me with, I wasn't going to fall short on that one. I was young, yes, but cosmopolitan!

A few minutes later we were entering the garden of the Japanese restaurant. It was a nice enough place. Quiet. With polite waiters. In fact polite enough to ask whether we want chopsticks or forks. Sunny looked at me. And gave me a break. "Forks", she said. Had she gone the other way, my entire facade would have collapsed.

The menus were just as polite as the waiters. They were not only written in English but they offered an explanation of each item. I ordered a dish that had chicken and rice and corn and a raw egg. Then the waiter asked whether we wanted some sake to go with our food. "Yes". He produced that wonderful china with the alcoholic beverage. As he served us the sake, he made a small noise and asked, "Would you care for some catsoup before your meal?"...

"Of course", Sunny replied and looked at me. I smiled. Then panicked...

What??... Catsoup?... Surely, they didn't mean...

Anyone who has ever been to Athens knows that there are a lot of stray little kittens... some of them were even running around the garden of the Japanese restaurant. In my horrified eyes I could see a Japanese cook chasing them with a long japanese sword. I took a big gulp of sake. The shock of the drink to my throat did me good. I was as determined as ever to maintain my composure.

I smiled again. And continued the conversation with Sunny as if I hadn't noticed the last words exchanged between her and Mr. Polite Japanese Waiter. Who soon after returned with two bowls of soup. Oh boy... I took one more big gulp of sake... hoping it would give me courage. It did.

The soup was clear but yellowish in color... somewhat greasy... with some tiny pieces of meat floating in it. I stalled. Watched Sunny as she slowly brought the spoon to her mouth. "Aren't you going to eat your soup?", she asked me, the faintest grin noticeable on her lips. "It's still a little too hot", I explained as I stirred it with my spoon. Partly in an effort to discover what was in it! I just stirred and stirred. Finally I took a deep breath and rationalised. I had no idea what the Japanese did... what their food habits were... and whether these included small furry pets. But I knew Sunny. And if this wonderful woman was eating catsoup then I would trust her and eat it too.

I took a spoonful under her watchful eye. It had a vaguely familiar taste. I took a second spponful, then a third. Halfway through my bowl I decided it was enough. "Aren't you going to finish your soup?", she asked almost teasingly. I grinned. "I am saving my apetite for later", I said and winked at her. She burst out laughing.

Sunny was still laughing when Mr. Polite Waiter came to us with the main course. Never have I been so relieved at the sight of a chicken dish! I buried my fork in it with the happiness of a person who finally knows what he is eating. The rest of the meal was filled with more pleasant conversation, more laughs, more good times.

(Many weeks later I figured out that what I had just had was soup made from catfish. And a huge burden was lifted from within me. But at the time I was still living with the agony.)

As we were exiting the restaurant Sunny squeezed my hand. "Hey", she said and gave me a little kiss. "You are a pretty brave guy", she whispered in my ear. I just lowered my head and looked towards the ground. And blushed a very deep shade of red.
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Opus_of_a_liar 47F

12/4/2011 1:19 am



Thanks for the first smile of the morning, my friend. For some reason, your story reminded me that there are good people out there.


sandpearls 55F
1454 posts
12/4/2011 1:15 pm

The secrets of summer sensualities lay in our heart always.


PerpetoMobile13 67F
3218 posts
12/4/2011 3:45 pm



Brave is such understatement in this case!

However, You always sound so deliciously naughty...


~~I may be no better, but at least I am different.~~ Jean-Jacques Rousseau

~~Stop by my adventure land ~♑~Reambiguating the world~♑~


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/4/2011 6:14 pm

    Quoting  :

SandraD1000
you're wellcome, thanks for coming by.
kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/4/2011 6:16 pm

    Quoting  :

HotSoccerMom
that's wonderful. i've got four of them myself these days. fascinating little creatures. thanks for coming by HSM...

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/4/2011 6:18 pm

    Quoting Opus_of_a_liar:


    Thanks for the first smile of the morning, my friend. For some reason, your story reminded me that there are good people out there.
Opus_of_a_liar
you're wellcome ms. opus. you are definitely among the good people here.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/4/2011 6:20 pm

    Quoting  :

sexysixties
thanks sexy. yes, she was good to me. there is another little story with her. i wonder if i should post that too.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/4/2011 6:22 pm

    Quoting  :

MzBonBon527
why thank you BonBon. does this mean i can't go wrong with you?... lol...
kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/4/2011 6:23 pm

    Quoting Zoom442:
    Everything you write makes me smile
Zoom442
it's because you are such a sweet and wonderful woman zoomie... thank you.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/4/2011 6:25 pm

    Quoting sandpearls:
    The secrets of summer sensualities lay in our heart always.

i'm sure you have similar stories, right?

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/4/2011 6:27 pm

    Quoting PerpetoMobile13:


    Brave is such understatement in this case!

    However, You always sound so deliciously naughty...


aww thanks. and naughty?... me?... nah...


kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/4/2011 6:28 pm

    Quoting  :

ninner1998
thanks ninner... glad you liked it.

kisses.


sandpearls 55F
1454 posts
12/4/2011 10:17 pm

    Quoting toothysmile:


    i'm sure you have similar stories, right?

    kisses.

He was an upstate NY junior, high school student.
I had just finished college.
First time in Greece. He.
First time in Santorini. I.

First time he was being seduced.
Santorini was never the same for me after that.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/5/2011 1:29 am

    Quoting sandpearls:
    He was an upstate NY junior, high school student.
    I had just finished college.
    First time in Greece. He.
    First time in Santorini. I.

    First time he was being seduced.
    Santorini was never the same for me after that.



yes. see? we've all have some great memories from our summers in the greek islands. perhaps you should make a post of it?

santorini is one of the most beautiful places in the world. and yes, i think i have a couple of stories from there too.

kisses.


cblgrl2005 115F
2584 posts
12/5/2011 7:31 am

Brave, daring---trusting--...any of these perhaps. But your adventurous spirit overcame doubt---Unlike you--not so sure I would have tasted let alone allowed it. This and all you compose--I trust it to be real--and insight on all that you may be...lucky I stumbled upon you


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
12/5/2011 12:39 pm

is this autobiographical ?
as you know my hubby travels to China and he has had the very same feelings about some of his eating out experiences he worries it cat or dog meat all the time. most of the food is delightful he says but these dishes that he wonders about bother him severely.

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/5/2011 3:42 pm

    Quoting  :

curioustap
and you are always so kind to me. thank you.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/5/2011 3:43 pm

    Quoting cblgrl2005:
    Brave, daring---trusting--...any of these perhaps. But your adventurous spirit overcame doubt---Unlike you--not so sure I would have tasted let alone allowed it. This and all you compose--I trust it to be real--and insight on all that you may be...lucky I stumbled upon you

it's me who is the lucky one here. thank you.

kisses.


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/5/2011 3:45 pm

    Quoting rm_loveslilies:
    is this autobiographical ?
    as you know my hubby travels to China and he has had the very same feelings about some of his eating out experiences he worries it cat or dog meat all the time. most of the food is delightful he says but these dishes that he wonders about bother him severely.
loveslilies
it is autobiographical down to the last t. and as it turned out, it was soup from catfish, not cats. or else i would have still be guilt-ridden. i just went with my instinct and trusted that she wouldn't eat soup made of cats... and it paid off.

lots of kisses.


whipedstrwbry 59F
4148 posts
12/5/2011 7:25 pm

I am usually a shameless slutty bitch,and au contraire I like your cute naive stories here! xo


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/5/2011 7:35 pm

    Quoting whipedstrwbry:
    I am usually a shameless slutty bitch,and au contraire I like your cute naive stories here! xo

thanks. i'll take that as a compliment then...

kisses.


JN63JPN 61F  
27439 posts
12/6/2011 7:27 am

They don't exactly eat cats here but they do still use cat guts for strings for instruments like guitars and shamisens I know, , isn't it?

However, catfish breaded and pan-fried in a generous amount of butter with lemon squeezed on top rocks!

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toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/6/2011 9:10 am

    Quoting JN63JPN:
    They don't exactly eat cats here but they do still use cat guts for strings for instruments like guitars and shamisens I know, , isn't it?

    However, catfish breaded and pan-fried in a generous amount of butter with lemon squeezed on top rocks!

yes. i know that now. i wish i knew it back then too. but back then we didn't have w...pedia or g..gle.
this restaurant was by far the first 'exotic' restaurant in athens in those days. greek restaurants were very traditional, ie either french cuisine or greek tavernas with the assorted greek food.
in many ways it was an eye-opening experience and i certainly owe miss feelgoodjanssen that!
i warmed up to asian food during my years in the usa. i preferred chinese food to japanese... and thai to chinese! and when they ask me if i want some catsoup, i smile.

Kisses.


ScarletteNites 63F
292 posts
12/6/2011 5:36 pm

Ahh, to be an "old girlfriend"... to be relished as a treasure in your eyes, a musical note that gave you a song in your heart... long after the music stopped.

Truly, your life experiences with the female gender has soothed some edges, and given you the insight of how a woman wants to feel.
Bravo, my dear friend.

In our next life... remember me, for I'll remember you.



Warm thoughts for your day
~ Your Scarlette


toothysmile 57M
16539 posts
12/7/2011 9:41 am

    Quoting ScarletteNites:
    Ahh, to be an "old girlfriend"... to be relished as a treasure in your eyes, a musical note that gave you a song in your heart... long after the music stopped.

    Truly, your life experiences with the female gender has soothed some edges, and given you the insight of how a woman wants to feel.
    Bravo, my dear friend.

    In our next life... remember me, for I'll remember you.


oh, my dear scarlette... i remember you in this life as well... but if you want me to remember you in the next life then i promise to do that too.

thank you!
kisses.


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