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Announcing The Second Virtual Symposium: Let's Pick A Topic!  

humorlife 56M  
4929 posts
9/17/2014 4:42 am
Announcing The Second Virtual Symposium: Let's Pick A Topic!

Our first virtual symposium Participants List For The First Virtual Symposium Age And Amorousness was an incredible success! We had more than two dozen participants, all of whom posted (at more or less the same time) on a single concept. Takes included personal essays, fantasies, poetry, images collages, and even a statistical review.

More than that – and this really was the main success of the activity – a group of damned creative bloggers was exposed to each others’ work.

Let’s do it again! I’ve listed five topics, below: Voting is open to anyone, and once a single topic is chosen, all interested should post their interpretations on the morning of Saturday, Sept. 27. No matter which topic we ultimately choose, I hope folks will interpret it as broadly as befits their personalities.

On the morning of Sept. 27, I’ll start a placeholder post, and as participants put their contributions up, I’ll look for their notifications and incorporate links into that central post. Participants are encouraged to note in their posts that they’re part of a communal effort: Doing so allows someone who stumbles on one such blog item to enjoy as many of our pieces as he/she wants… and further strengthens a sense of virtual community.

The only two rules are: A ) Please post as early on the chosen day as possible, to allow for maximum exposure (and, quite frankly, so I’m not glued to my desk all day), and B ) the posts should be entirely original, as opposed to commenting on other posts from the topic. Ideally, posts should be created beforehand, and put on the site on the designated day. (The comments sections, of course, would be fair game!)

A suggestion: Participants may want to refer to either the virtual symposium or the topic itself in their headline. Not a requirement – there are no requirements, save for originality and participation – but a suggestion which will let the wide blog community know what we’re doing.

And… this is not a contest. No souvenir mugs will be sent, nor ribbons or bling awarded. The idea here is for those interested to, on a single day, offer an interpretation of a single topic for the sheer fun of it.

By all means, encourage other bloggers to participate – and to let me know they’re doing so, either through this post or via email, so on Sept. 27 I can link to their posts.

So what topic will we use for the second virtual symposium? I’ve listed five, below – I think they’re general enough that, whichever one we end up choosing, most folks should be comfortable offering reactions. Feel free to electioneer in the comments, below, for any you find particularly compelling.

Voting for the topic will close at end-day on Saturday, Sept. 20.

Thank you in advance for your participation! And yes, reading and enjoying counts as participation. Pick that topic!

Voting is now closed... the topic of the next virtual symposium, which will be held on Sept. 27, is "Difficult Discussions"!
Difficult discussions
The one piece of advice I’d give…
A fantasy that should remain a fantasy
Like multiples? Advocate monogamy. Like monogamy? Sell multiples.
Tantalizing toys
Other (write it in below and lobby for it. Longshot, but… why not?)


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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
9/17/2014 8:41 am

So noted as a write-in! if it doesn't win this time, I'll put it in the hopper for future votes.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
9/17/2014 11:39 am

I'd say the first symposium was splendid. I really enjoyed reading what everyone wrote. It was a capital idea. No electioneering here. Just blindfold me, spin me around and point me in the general direction of that ass!

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humorlife 56M  
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9/17/2014 11:42 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    I'd say the first symposium was splendid. I really enjoyed reading what everyone wrote. It was a capital idea. No electioneering here. Just blindfold me, spin me around and point me in the general direction of that ass!
Thank you... and like you, I'm looking forward to the next round of offerings, no matter what the topic ultimately is!

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
9/17/2014 7:46 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm looking to see what folks will say on ANY of these topics... but I think the "advice" one could open up the doorway to some interesting non-prose offerings.

Anyone good at interpretive dance?

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
9/18/2014 6:55 am

    Quoting  :

Heh... sometimes people are at their best when they're having opposite days!

Actually, I'm really glad you asked this, because it gives me a chance to reiterate one of my favorite points about these symposiums (symposii? Help!)

The topics should be interpreted however you want: As long as there is at least a passing nod to the theme at hand, I'll welcome contributions that are warped (almost) beyond recognition...and in any medium!

As for what toys men use... read "Portnoy's Complaint" recently?

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/18/2014 8:54 am

All good choice there but I do like this topic

A fantasy that should remain a fantasy

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
9/18/2014 9:00 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    All good choice there but I do like this topic

    A fantasy that should remain a fantasy
I'd be willing to bet that the fantasies folks on this site have are richer than most... Planning on melting servers across North America?

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
9/19/2014 12:38 pm

    Quoting  :

When I pat you on the head, should I gaze at you with my patron eyes?

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
9/19/2014 5:52 pm

    Quoting  :

A fair pick, and a good reason... but it also shows that you're much nicer than I am. Who wants to make it easy for folks?

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
9/19/2014 8:12 pm

    Quoting humorlife:
    Heh... sometimes people are at their best when they're having opposite days!

    Actually, I'm really glad you asked this, because it gives me a chance to reiterate one of my favorite points about these symposiums (symposii? Help!)

    The topics should be interpreted however you want: As long as there is at least a passing nod to the theme at hand, I'll welcome contributions that are warped (almost) beyond recognition...and in any medium!

    As for what toys men use... read "Portnoy's Complaint" recently?
Symposia.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
9/19/2014 8:14 pm

And, real men don't use toys. They're tools.

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demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
9/19/2014 9:13 pm

I went with "Difficult Discussions". Didn't expect to see anybody else having voted for it lol


humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
9/20/2014 2:26 am

    Quoting demonicsexkitten:
    I went with "Difficult Discussions". Didn't expect to see anybody else having voted for it lol
Apparently folks are up for the challenge of difficult discussions -- or so it seems in the closing hours of voting!

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humorlife 56M  
5710 posts
9/20/2014 2:29 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    And, real men don't use toys. They're tools.
Ah, symposia. And yet radii is correct. Funny ol' language.

As for toys... your comment alone is enough to make me keep it in the hopper, as 1. I suspect there will be those who agree with you as well as those who, um, passionately disagree and 2. it doesn't look as though it will win this time!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
9/20/2014 2:49 am

    Quoting humorlife:
    Ah, symposia. And yet radii is correct. Funny ol' language.

    As for toys... your comment alone is enough to make me keep it in the hopper, as 1. I suspect there will be those who agree with you as well as those who, um, passionately disagree and 2. it doesn't look as though it will win this time!
Radii, latin. Symposium, greek. Ain't it grand to have a pedantic prick around to settle these things?

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humorlife 56M  
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9/20/2014 3:46 am

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Radii, latin. Symposium, greek. Ain't it grand to have a pedantic prick around to settle these things?
Kzoopair: Wouldn't have it any other way.

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KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
9/22/2014 10:55 am

Difficult discussions? I voted for it because everyone could go all over the place with this one- difficult discussion ideas could be but are not limited to; erectile dysfunction, dry pussy, "honey, don't use your teeth so much", fantasies like rhymes-with-grape that a partner in a couple might want fulfilled, our sex life is now officially boring, wanting to add a third to your couple, wanting to swing, women admitting late-in-life that they are really lesbians or bisexual, same for men, I'm having an affair, I just got/or I have a STD, Wanting rough sex, wanting to incorporate toys into sex life.

And that was just the first minute that I had to think about it.
I like being part of the decision making process and will write on whatever is more popular.
Kk
PS I posted this the same day as your post but it got denied due to the rhymes-with-grape word. Ugh!

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humorlife 56M  
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9/22/2014 11:43 am

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    Difficult discussions? I voted for it because everyone could go all over the place with this one- difficult discussion ideas could be but are not limited to; erectile dysfunction, dry pussy, "honey, don't use your teeth so much", fantasies like rhymes-with-grape that a partner in a couple might want fulfilled, our sex life is now officially boring, wanting to add a third to your couple, wanting to swing, women admitting late-in-life that they are really lesbians or bisexual, same for men, I'm having an affair, I just got/or I have a STD, Wanting rough sex, wanting to incorporate toys into sex life.

    And that was just the first minute that I had to think about it.
    I like being part of the decision making process and will write on whatever is more popular.
    Kk
    PS I posted this the same day as your post but it got denied due to the rhymes-with-grape word. Ugh!
Ah, I ran into a similar problem with that word when discussing a news story... I reckon it's one way of throwing an obstacle into some forms of fantasies (the usual naughty no-no ones), but a seriously deviated prevert will get around it...

At any rate... yes! As I keep saying, and as you indicate, I hope people go in all sorts of directions on this. Heck, a sufficiently motivated participant could probably use this as a springboard for discussing whichever non-winning topic he/she wanted -- but you didn't hear me say that...

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