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Who and what am I after?
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Who and what am I after? What am I here for? I am here looking for sex (surprise, surprise  ). However I am looking for a specific kind of sex. People in modern society are having sex for all different reasons: young people are having sex to prove they can, others are having sex to gain influence, to advance career, to obtain some benefits, to earn money, they do it out of love to other person or out of mercy, the list is endless (or yes and making babies ). The reason sex has become such a valuable "currency" in the modern world clearly is that when done properly it is extremely pleasurable. Unfortunately we have almost "unlearned" to have sex for pure pleasure without expecting any other benefits. Even people who are in love with each other are in fact using sex more like an instrument of love expression. They may settle for less pleasurable sex as long as their partner is happy. I am not judging anyone, but that is not what I am after. I am after great mutual burst of pleasure that sex can provide without any benefits except one - everyone's fun. Ironically in modern society the only purely pleasurable<b> sexual activity </font></b>that remains is masturbation. Indeed, no one is getting paid or promoted for it, no one is falling in love with dildo, finger and right (left) hand. It is pure pleasure. My goal is to have this pure pleasurable sex with a woman (I am straight). Most certainly, many of us are here in hopes to find a partner(s) to realize just that: their masturbation fantasies. Thus I want to approach sex as an "extended masturbation", to gradually move from solo masturbation to going at it in the same room (or chat room), then to mutual pleasures and eventually to sex. After all, where is the line between masturbation and sex? Is mutual masturbation already a sex act or not? Isn't oral sex in fact a mutual oral masturbation? The answers are murky at best. Of course mutual attraction must be there from the very beginning. However what is required for the mutual pleasures I am after is mutual lust, not love. I firmly believe that lust is not in any way lesser feeling than love, it is just different. We may be sexually attracted even to those we actually hate - such things indeed happen. Overall I believe that sex for pure pleasure is the way Nature intended. Primitive people apparently have been having sex left and right, they started early and apparently weren't even making a connection between sex and childbirth. They just had fun. Now that we are armed with contraception and protection we finally can get back to natural happiness. If you can relate to all that let us talk. |
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