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NSA.....does it really exist????
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NSA.....does it really exist???? I would really like to hear some peoples ideas and views on this...not to sure i believe it exists or is possible... 
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I think they're called 'slip ons'
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7/7/2008 5:04 pm |
I think it can happen, but I am waiting to make it happen myself, so seeing will be believing! Good luck in your endeavor...
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Yes it does. I was lucky enough to find a woman who knew what she wanted and needed. We had a year long affair that was fullfilling, friendly and fun. There were times where our emotions would get the better of us but we were both attached. Maybe that's what kept it from us from getting too needy. I don't think it can last for years but in our case, we both appreciated having a secret friend and since we were both insatiable, we had some great mind blowing naughty sex. Everywhere and every kind of sex imaginable. We both were only looking for ONE "special friend" and that kept it safe and comfortable as well. Just my two cents worth.
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9/23/2008 1:41 pm |
I thought it could exist once and then I tried it, I kept it to a no strings thing but she was always wanting more. I could sense her feelings but we never talked about it. We tried to end it a few times because we were such good friends and we did not want to loose that, but we always ended up sleeping together again. The reason we couldn't stop was because it was the best sex we had ever had. She got in a serious relationship after I ended up falling in love with her so we stopped sleeping together. I still love her to this day and I wish I wasn't such an ass and then I would be with her now but she is getting married in about six weeks. I think the connection from making love is so strong that you will always feel for the other person, so the string exist forever.
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10/8/2008 10:58 am |
NSA.....does it really exist???? Yes, it does exist...BUT its like treading thin ice because its part of our emotional make-up to become attached to the person we are with... As long as the two people are clear, and have set the ground rules for NSA, then all should be good. MAD!!! 
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10/13/2008 2:33 pm |
I think NSA does really exist..However, I think a number of people on sex sites have a tendency to form unrealistic attachments based on their own neediness....The less commitment is talked about..the more open one is to NSA..I was involved in a NSA sexual relationship for six years..It was successful because we both enjoyed having sex with each other..and we respected each others boundaries..
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1 post 11/24/2008 9:46 pm |
i had to laugh at the posts because they were all from MEN...perhaps doitrite is looking for a woman's point of view. for myself...i dont know if it can exist or not for the ladies...i think the emotions and the closeness eventually can make it difficult to not desire more....do it rite...you are a great-looking lady and i wish you all the best and hope you find what it is you are looking for.
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1 post 12/9/2008 6:03 pm |
It does exist and can be an exciting time between consenting adults. By the way, you are incredible.
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if two people are mature,realistic,they can be NSA,yet share all the passion,joy they need to fulfill their needs.it is a matter of commitment to not upsetting your home and family life,while remaining true to yourself,finding the things you need in life
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NSA can start out with the best intentions on both sides. It gets complicated when the experience becomes so enjoyable you start taking risks. I steer well clear of married women for that very reason. There is only one married woman I would with whom I'd start a relationship. Only because I know her situation so well. We have discussed it often enough. All it requires is for me to come to America. That might be a string. BTW. Great profile and pics.
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If the session is good, at least one thread (or more) attaches. I can't help but to feel/build some form of connection.
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NSA...Hmmmmm,,,,National Sex Association...No, that's not what you meant now is it!!! No Strings Attached...yes, it's possible, NSA can work, but it only works if all involved are mature adults who can control their emotions. By "mature" I'm NOT referring to age, although usually those who are a bit older seem to be able to make NSA relationships work. All parties involved must be on the same page and discuss their expectations, wants, needs, limits, etc. fully before entering into this kind of relationship! I've enjoyed several NSA relationship over the past 30 years with both women & M/F couples; some lasted less than a year, some a few years & 2 have lasted 20+ years. I wish you good luck as NSA can be quite rewarding if it's with the right person/people.
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yes it does as long as both understand up front what is going on. If you would like to explore it send me a message
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I see why not but both cant fall i love enotionally.It has too be just once and a while sex . Thats it . not every week but more likc once evry month or so. just too keep a little distant. thats my thoughts.
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why does it need to be complicated? I mean seriously, the main difference is when people have emotions going into it or not. I personally have had several NSA relationships and they were all enjoyable and all ended quite well. I personally think that people bring to much of themselves and attachment into the picture when at the end of the day, it's about the sex that matters. If it wasn't, then whats the point of the NSA thing????
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i feel it exists as long as you are open and honest about how you feel. i believe most men,(myself included) are looking for a sexual relationship first, but for me, if something serious grows out of it, great. in my opinion, men need to understand that when some women decide to have sex she is giving her entire self, mind and body. its a huge deal for a woman, but for a lot of men, if not all(lol) its all physical.
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3/9/2010 2:12 pm |
I think it's only possible if its a short fling but the longer it goes on the more "strings" get attached. I just think it's funny how all the men who replyed think its possible.
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3/16/2011 10:38 pm |
NSA is possible if both people are upfront about it from the start. Currently, I am looking for NSA. It's just where I am at in my life right now. That may change later, but I can't go to my NSA friends and make that change...my NSA's are that...sex buddies! No jealousy issues; no whining when we can't connect. We may not even talk for weeks, then bam! You have to know if you want that. Just be honest about what you want and it will all work out. FYI: great pics! U are very attractive!
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I believe it exists, BUT, only for certain types of people. Personally, I find that if I'm in a relationship with someone, and we are making love, I can't help but form a bond with that person.
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8/12/2017 1:19 pm |
NSA is a myth if you are also looking for some physical intensity in your relationship and great sex. The best sexual experiences are shared by two people who are invested in each other. Just my thoughts
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