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Is There Really True Love To Be Found On A F F? YES!
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Is There Really True Love To Be Found On A F F? YES! As I roam the streets of Blogville I see some really disappointed people and that saddens me. I hate seeing people have their hopes and expectations dashed. Soooo, I have some suggestions for those who have yet to find true love in here. Most of the guys in here that are disappointed have the same theme. "I told her my dick wouldn't suck itself and I'm the best there is and she didn't answer. What a bitch. Are there any REAL women on this site?" Yes , this is an actual copy and paste. I don't think we need to go any farther with these cretins. The more serious men wonder how to talk with and possibly meet someone. The ladies have a similar interest. If I may be so bold, as Blogville's elder and master of what NOT to do, let me offer some guidance. First. Sit down with a piece of paper and pen and write down your NEEDS. What do you truly need from a partner? NOT what you want, but what you need. Do you need to feel loved? Do you need a strong personality in your life? Do you need security? Compassion? Make a detailed list of what you need. The purpose for this...until you truly know and understand what you NEED...you can never find a partner who will satisfy those needs. As a result, relationships may come close, but will never hit. Time after time they miss. Until we recognize our mistakes, we are doomed to repeat them. Recognize your needs. This is the single greatest gift you can give yourself. Cruise the blogs and keep your eyes peeled. You will find people with your perspective and goals. Those are the ones to zero inon and discover if they can meet your needs. How you ask? Questions. Let's try a little something here. Do you think that actual immediate mind control is possible? Can someone take over your mind so totally that you will ONLY think of what they want you to think when they want you to? You may say no or probably not. Now consider this please, how many siblings do you have? Name them aloud please. What is your position in the family? Are your parents surviving? What are their names? About 30 seconds ago I asked if mind control was possible and the conclusion was no. Yet for the last 30 seconds you thought only about your family. Mind control is possible. With questions. Ask a person a question and they will think of the answer. Imagine of you put the right questions in the right sequence. You just controlled a thought process. Amazing what you can unlock in a person via questions. This probably will not work if you're thinking world conquest. The secret to true love lies within you. Are you worthy? Have you been beaten down so many times that you feel whatever life deals you is good enough? It isn't! You deserve the best life has to offer and nothing less each and every day. You have just as much right to happiness as anyone else does. Don't ever settle. Don't ever accept any position other than first. Remember, if you are unhappy...how can you possibly make someone else happy? I am going to post something you probably would never expect coming from me in a couple of days. I want to talk about the ADVANTAGES to a long distance relationship.  [blog talldarkavg1] |
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10/5/2007 6:42 pm |
Ya know, you're gonna ruin your image as a jerk if you keep posting these thoughtful commentaries.  I think one other issue that plagues people who use internet sites to meet people is that the anonymity gives them the illusion that they don't have to follow some of the basic courtesies we all learn. I think that a lot of people would find themselves more successful on here and other sites and even in person if they'd simply think about how they approach people. If your mother or sister or any other female of importance in your life would bitch-slap you for saying it, then don't say it to a total stranger you want to get close to. Ya know you really are too sweet!  Later! {=} ~~"I can scream as loud as your last one, but I can't claim innocence."~~
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I think New has been trying to work mind control on me. Either that or he's stalking me in your blog. Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.
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10/5/2007 7:30 pm |
I found my husband through the blogs. I was in NY and he was in the UK! We've been married for 5 months, we bought a home and we're super happy together! Everyone thought it wouldn't work! It did and will continue to do so!   ***tee hee***
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There are no ...NO advantages to being in a long distance relationship... none... getting to know someone and chatting until the cows come home will never replace sitting down and talking over coffee or drinks.. But...TDA... I will sit and listen and although I doubt you can persuade me ... I will keep an open mind.... truly. btw I have made my list... it's on my blog so many times, it's embarrassing... tender hugs...m.
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<<<< stands slack jawed in awe of T's wisdom. As always Swallow
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You forgot to mention that you need to have an extensive inventory of what you have to offer too. Don't sell yourself short. Make yourself seem fabulous and worth striving to gain. I don't particularly like appearing to be needy so I save that for someone who has the strength of character to really cope with the massive demands I'm likely to make on him.
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Very well said. Org.
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10/6/2007 1:28 pm |
i write about this all the time. love is an action verb and in some respects it has to be earned and maintained. i met my guy here 2 years ago and believe me, if i can do it anyone can... good post.
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10/6/2007 3:03 pm |
Well said! If you do not know or understand exactly what it is you want, no one else has a chance. As far as stupid, petulant e-mails go... I get many. I have become an expert on blocking!! Still, there is something to be said about people strong enough and hopeful enough to expect a certain level of connection ( and are willing to take the risk to get it). I must say... they are stronger than me. All I want to do is spank your ass, not kiss it! That does not involve emotional risks at all.
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What a wonderful post!!! I've been on a few dating sites and never took time to consider my needs, as you discuss. At this site, I took some time to write out my needs for my ad and do believe it made a difference. I met my sweetheart here. We will have been dating for two years come January 1 (not too far off). We're talking about moving in together which is very exciting. But I'm a little nervous, as I've lived alone for 20+ years. I'm more excited than nervous though and am looking forward to taking this big step!!!  A well thought out ad does make a difference! {=}
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Where's the post about long distance relationships, ya lazy git?
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Good for you! Happy is a very desirable quality. Of course, a black bra never hurt either. [blog talldarkavg1]
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I have read them. Had I been able to fulfill 3 or more I would have hit on you immediately. In the mean time I'll just sit in the wings and see if you lower your standards. [blog talldarkavg1]
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Ya know, you're gonna ruin your image as a jerk if you keep posting these thoughtful commentaries. I think one other issue that plagues people who use internet sites to meet people is that the anonymity gives them the illusion that they don't have to follow some of the basic courtesies we all learn. I think that a lot of people would find themselves more successful on here and other sites and even in person if they'd simply think about how they approach people. If your mother or sister or any other female of importance in your life would bitch-slap you for saying it, then don't say it to a total stranger you want to get close to. Ya know you really are too sweet! Later! {=} You are so right. Manners just seem to be a thing of the past anymore. [blog talldarkavg1]
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I think New has been trying to work mind control on me. Either that or he's stalking me in your blog. [blog talldarkavg1]
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I found my husband through the blogs. I was in NY and he was in the UK! We've been married for 5 months, we bought a home and we're super happy together! Everyone thought it wouldn't work! It did and will continue to do so! [blog talldarkavg1]
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We are all thinking of his galantry on our behalf. May he return home safe and sound! [blog talldarkavg1]
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Wait a country minute...did I just read you saying that you don't like yourself? Whoa Nelly tie up the horses Daddy's got some business. Wait...are you joking about that? [blog talldarkavg1]
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LMAO...young lady you can pimp me any time you want!! [blog talldarkavg1]
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Thank you. I agree completely. I am alarmed a bit at the male mentality in here. I fear it's heading in a shameful unforgivable direction. Those men assume if a woman is on this site...she wants it. Therefore they are rude, vulgar, take any liberty they wish, and are downright disrespectful. What scares me is it is that same mentality that explains off as...she was asking for it. Shameful indeed! [blog talldarkavg1]
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Congrats Arti! Sifting is the key isn't it? [blog talldarkavg1]
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There are no ...NO advantages to being in a long distance relationship... none... getting to know someone and chatting until the cows come home will never replace sitting down and talking over coffee or drinks.. But...TDA... I will sit and listen and although I doubt you can persuade me ... I will keep an open mind.... truly. btw I have made my list... it's on my blog so many times, it's embarrassing... tender hugs...m. [blog talldarkavg1]
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Are you kidding me? The guy would be the luckiest sombitch on the planet. Patience young lady, he'll come along sooner than you imagine. [blog talldarkavg1]
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<<<< stands slack jawed in awe of T's wisdom. [blog talldarkavg1]
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LOL, thank you sir! [blog talldarkavg1]
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