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An Open Letter To My Stalker
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An Open Letter To My Stalker Dear Married Guy Stalking Me and My Blog, Since 2007 you have popped in and out of my life. We met on this site. You were single back then. At first, your contact seemed benign and I trusted that you were mentally stable. Even though you lived in my city, I made the mistake of giving you my cell phone number which led to a few sexual trysts. The last tryst you became extremely rough and abusive. That put the nail in the coffin. Over the years you would randomly text me and you interpreted my slightly aloof banter as an open invitation for sex. It was not. I would block you for awhile, feel guilty, then give you the benefit of the doubt and re-allow contact until you did it again. Occasional blocked calls would pop up on my phone that I suspected were from you. It has been over a year and I thought you had finally moved on but I was wrong. Last night out of the blue you randomly texted my phone to let me know you were reading my blog and following my sexual escapades. Interesting because I don't share much information about my sexual escapades on my blog. Then it hit me. You are a delusional guy. You are also a sociopath and a narcissist. You continued messaging me even though I refused to respond. In the middle of the night you texted to advise you were sitting outside my house. At that point you crossed a line. I don't care if you were joking, your behavior is unacceptable. Again more prying texts from you this morning. I have told you to lose my number and as of this morning I have permanently blocked you from texting and calling me. However, the law says I can't stop you from driving by my house. You do know I am a former army soldier and police officer, right? I happen to also be an expert marksman. It would be unwise to continue your exploits. You can create many online personas but those personas do not intimidate me. Consider yourself warned. ~Me |
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6/26/2016 7:52 am |
Wow, hon. I am sooooo sorry. As an ex-officer and paramedic myself...I KNOW you are thinking what I am: center mass. But...I know you are a caring lady that doesn't want it to come even close to that point too. So, Just throwing out ideas, hon...although not my place and I am POSITIVE you have considered them. 1. Just asking to file a proactive police report? Just for the record? 2. Maybe consider an oop...order of protection? 3. Posting a No Trespassing...again just for the record. It is idiotic to say this and you will recognize that too, but I hope you take it in the spirit I mean it. I wish there was something I could do to help. I would. Hugs...Craig
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6/26/2016 7:55 am |
This is just creepy. I was also wondering if I was missing something in your blogs because there aren't any sexual escapades in the ones I've read.
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You're the second person I've read about in the last two days having a stalker. That's frightening. I'm sure knowing who the person is doesn't make the situation any less scary, but it would give you a slight advantage since you would recognize him. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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I would have NEVER re-allowed contact. That's an invitation to disaster. In fact, I would not have written this letter, and I would delete it immediately. By continuing to communicate with a stalker, you are only encouraging him to keep doing what he's doing. What you say in the letter is completely irrelevant to him. All he cares about is that you're still paying attention to him. Cut off ALL contact NOW and act like this person doesn't exist. Block him on your phone, this site, and anything else you've used to communicate with him. If he makes one move on you in any way, go directly to the police.
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So sorry that you've had to deal with this for so many years! Go to the police and give them all the information you have on him. As a counselor, what would you advise a client to do in your situation? (hugs)
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very good warning
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Ms. M, Thanks for sharing - you share many things and all kinds of information that not only helps you with your frustration and everything else here but also gives us ideas how to deal with things also. Hate these things happen. Hopefully this stops it. best Regards - John
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This is shocking stuff! It seems that you are very capable of handling this situation, but please be careful.
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Sorry to hear about your situation. Its too bad that you can not contact law enforcement.  You do have the right to protect your privacy and your property. So posting a sign will def help. Do you think you can let the wife know to check her husband.
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Damn!!!! What a total idiot, loser!!!! I was planning for my usual, witty reply until I read the part that he texted he was outside your house!!!! Being an expert shot is good except that it might be tough to explain how he attacked you while across the street! Lol! Well deserved but problematic for you.  Hugs
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My heart goes out to you, Myelin. No one deserves to have an asshole stalker. I want to stand outside your house just to kick this guy's ass for annoying you. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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Also, this guy is MARRIED! You have the power to ruin his life. I can't imagine what is going on in that deranged little brain of his. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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myelin, One option you have is to go to county/state and get a restraining order without getting the local cops involved. Lawyer's who normally handle traffic ticket will handle it for you. It will force him to answer the summons and if he violates the courts order it is the state vs the fucktard. If he doesn't show up auto res order. if he shows up an order from the judge. How you met, what site you are on is irrelevant to the judge, fucktard won't be even allowed to bring it up. The fact is that harassment and staking is verboten. He has little power over you, you hold all the cards. You could fuck up his marriage and career without much effort. Courts will not look kindly to a fucktard who is harassing a female Veteran minding own business. One violation and sue the pants out of him for emotional distress. A former abusive boyfriend has no claim on you and what you do. Your rights as an American is still good even if you chose to be a porn star or a hooker in NV. None of his fucking business. "Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .
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6/28/2016 7:58 pm |
Again myelin...none of my business. Feel free to disregard... But maybe an option to involving law enforcement and also end-around to the Order of protection. Could you not go to the State's Attorney's office for the complaint? I may be wrong, but if I remember right from my past...they would have that confidentiality aspect (and I understand your concerns there) and you might even know someone in that office from your past that could walk through some of those concerns? Just a thought.
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7/2/2016 6:54 am |
Okie-dokey hon. Obviously I trust your judgment in the matter. Seems REALLY silly to say, but your responders (me too  ) are here for ya! I am no good at astral projection, but I can always try to "haunt" him if you wish as the ghost of Xmas past...lol. Hugs
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