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Site Shenanigans  

myelin36 53F
4614 posts
2/23/2016 5:55 am
Site Shenanigans


she·nan·i·gans
SHəˈnanəɡənz/
nouninformal
Secret or dishonest activity or maneuvering.
"Widespread financial shenanigans had ruined the fortunes of many"
Silly or high-spirited behavior; mischief.

I check my profile views, hotlist views and flirts regularly. Occasionally a profile will stand out that clearly does not align with my preferences. Case in point: on two separate occasions, I have received views from an alleged 19 year-old female "member" who lists her location as "states" Kansas. Her profile contains a variation of Mizzou in it. When I mouse over her profile it lists that she has one profile photo which is clearly a photo gleaned off the internet.

Here's where it gets interesting. I have tried clicking on her profile and my computer just sits there "thinking." So, I took it a step further and manually entered her screen name in the search engine. Nothing. Nada. Not even a screen that says "profile not available or turned off." Just white space like the profile simply does not even exist.

I'm aware that the site has fake/dummy accounts set up. I am wondering if this is the case? It's fraud if you think about it. Guys see this young, hot girl viewing their profile and think "wow, people are checking me out." I think it's another attempt to lure unsuspecting men into paying for gold memberships but why view MY profile?

Has anyone else had this problem?

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sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
2/23/2016 6:05 am

The last 4 scammers who hot listed me, I got the same thing, tried to view the profile and came up with a blank white page.

Upon turning said profiles into the Abuse Team here on this site, guess what ?

Nothing happened, even after naming the model who's photos had beeen lifted off the internet, nada, zip, nothing again.
Three reports later, same thing, nothing, the profiles are still showing, no activity, but they're still there.
the site seems to be pulling another "Fast one" on the member's here again.


myelin36 replies on 2/23/2016 6:10 am:
I'm glad to hear that I am not the only one that is experiencing this "problem." When it comes to deception, it's their site so guess it's okay for THEM to fraud members.

rm_txcoal 70M
205 posts
2/23/2016 6:13 am

yes I agree, this site has sunk to new low's... reading blogs a person can read that instead of gaining members many have left being a paid member..to just a standard as myself. Another great move on the site is that gold is not gold anymore...lol now you have to be gold PLUS pay extra if you want a standard to contact you or you able to contact them... I am still wondering what FULL ACCESS means...lol It truly makes me happy to not being a paid member when a GOLD member emails me an I am not allowed to read it... Yes I get notified that someone has viewed me , so I look at profile, many things SOUND OFF that they are fake, like when 2-3 have basically the same thing wrote , just a couple of word changes...I guess this sites upper management hasn't heard the say " If its not broke don't try to fix it" In time someone you would think would have to answer to why the number 1 site has sank so low in membership an no one wants to return... Its still funny how they give out FREE membership to women but not to men... I guess that's the hook they hope will draw membership..lol


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/23/2016 6:30 am

The site(s) have a variety of ways they try to entice people into paying for gold. I mostly ignore them, they aren't worth my time.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


myelin36 replies on 2/23/2016 7:00 am:
Something I don't understand is why these test profiles are showing up in my viewed watchers feed when supposedly females who are active members on this site get a gold ball. It makes me wonder what the site is up to.

PaisleyPolly 32F
120 posts
2/23/2016 6:55 am

It's hilarious that the site makes a big statement about trying to reduce the number of fakes when they themselves make fake profiles - some under the guise of 'test' profiles, but they interact with members who don't know they're test profiles and have pics of some young hot girl on it.


oldbstrd55 67M
3292 posts
2/23/2016 6:59 am

I get flirts and hot listed by none viewers. I do get a few views but I think most of those come from some ones curser rolling over my profile and those responding fro a blog comment.


Shyguyinaz 59M
1624 posts
2/23/2016 7:00 am

Happens all the time. I receive hit's from Tawain quite a bit. Sone young 23 yr old with one stock photo.


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
2/23/2016 7:13 am

I sort of assume half the profiles are fake until proven otherwise. It helps.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


Golly06 71M
1932 posts
2/23/2016 7:25 am

I feel so left out. I have not had the particular problem you mentioned as far as the site pulling a scam. I do get flirts from young women, who by their profile, I have nothing in common with, wanting an alternate means of contacting me (not gonna happen). Overall, I am fairly scam free.


EeseRider 66M
187 posts
2/23/2016 8:12 am

I have experienced this several times lately. They view my profile, look pretty good,so I go to check them out....same white page,even days later. So your not the only one.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/23/2016 8:27 am

myelin36 replies on 2/23/2016 9:00 am:
Something I don't understand is why these test profiles are showing up in my viewed watchers feed when supposedly females who are active members on this site get a gold ball. It makes me wonder what the site is up to.

The question why is a good one considering you are already gold and it was a woman and you don't have women as one of your interests. Given that there are all sorts of people behind profiles it could be a guy too. Maybe I've become a bit jaded about this stuff but I ignore views and hotlists that don't include an attempt to make written contact.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
2/23/2016 12:10 pm

It is a problem but I tend to ignore the 'under age' views I get.


ProfPlayful 53M
3861 posts
3/1/2016 5:50 pm

The last young, hot girl to view my profile was you, Myelin. FBOW my clear statement that I am not here for sex has driven away all scammers.

At least I hope it was that statement.

My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.


myelin36 replies on 3/1/2016 6:22 pm:
I am most definitely NOT young. Hot is a subjective term.

Linc1912 47M
978 posts
3/3/2016 6:38 pm

So when you check your profile of people that have checked yours out...
, you check out the profile that is the least aligned with your interests?

~Linc was here.~


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