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The "Positivity" Project
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The "Positivity" Project We have all heard horror stories and rants about meets going incredibly wrong, members being tricked, lied to, or "Catfished." It's no wonder cynicism among members on this site and others is at an all time high. The inspiration behind this blog post and creation of the "Positivity Project" is two fold: instill hope among jaded members that true diamonds in the rough exist on this site and in spite of obvious obstacles we frequently encounter, successful meets and connections DO occur. Those who have had successful encounters realize something: having a positive attitude IS key to success. Hopefully through creation of the positivity project, we can prove that this site is not a complete waste of time and resources! This is where you come in! I would like to elicit your feedback. If you've experienced a positive connection/meet or experience with this site, I would like you to share it with us in the comments section. Special thanks to sweetlips_03 for the inspiration behind this blog post. Feel free to promote this on your blog if you are so inclined.  |
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9/6/2015 9:40 am |
We have been playing for almost 10 years, and have had twenty or so encounters in that time - all with Senior Sizzle members. Just like in the 'real world,' there are people here on whom you wouldn't want to waste your time, and there are people with whom you can have a blast! What seems to work best is to actually meet in a no-pressure environment prior to arranging a play date. This has two benefits - you're able to measure them in person, which is WAY more accurate than online / text, and if they actually commit to showing up when there's no immediate reward, you can be pretty confident that they'll show up for fun!
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I've been on this site since 2006. Since that time, I've had some interesting adventures. I've maintained longstanding friendships with over a handful of members that have transcended and evolved over the years into deeper and lasting FWB type of relationships. One of my FWB's drove all the way from St Louis to cheer me on during my first ever marathon last year. He even captured the moment on both film and video. Friends like that are truly what this site is about. 
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While there are some frustrating aspects to being on this site there are also some good things that can happen too. I have met several women from here in the time I’ve been here (since 12/2013). I won’t go into detail about them here. But if you think it would be helpful for me to post something on my blog let me know. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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To follow up on my previous comment ( in " Could Cynicism Be Destroying Your Chances of Success With This Site " ) I've stepped out into the glare of daylight with people from here, with good results
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your ideas are so true...in magnetism opposites attract (positive to negative) but in human interaction just the opposite happens- like attract like (positive people attractive positivism and like minded people while negative people will push positive people away and other negative people will avoid you too!). “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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I can definitely say that it's not a waste of time being on this site. I would have liked to have had the chance to meet more here but the few people I have met I won't forget.
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I have not yet had a face to face encounter, but I also don't pursue like I should in order to meet. I have however developed friendships here and another site, distance has made a meet rather difficult and most of those meets would be nothing more than getting together for a beverage and conversation.
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This is the best thing since someone thought to put a pat of butter on a slice of warm bread! I'm tired of hearing all the bitching and moaning -and so happy that you have taken up positive arms against it. In my recent post, [post 3691425] which you were first to comment on, thank you!, I find the voting numbers very interesting. Not at all as I expected. Going to do a follow up on it, soon. The reason I bring it up is this . . . We all have different reasons for being here, on such sites. For me, while I have not literally met anyone, I virtually feel attached in some ways and attracted in many ways to a number of people. Therefore, this site and my experience with it is very good and positive; which is why I am fully onboard with this project. Thank you! Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH
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Honestly, I can't say enough good things about the people I've met here. I've been blessed beyond expectation, and am a much better person because of it!
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I believe in positivity and endorse this project wholeheartedly. I am open to meeting people from this site and I can vouch for several of them from face-to-face meetings for coffee or lunch. They have all been wonderful people. But in my particular circumstance I never have opportunities for sexual liaisons so I have no stories to share about that particular dimension of Senior Sizzle. I honestly think of this as a place to read quality blogs, not an online dating site. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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Excellent post by the way! I been on this site as long as you have and meet some great friends in my travels. Anything could happen.. I am just picky whom I meet and it might take years before meeting.. Can they wait that long some don't hugssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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As I was reading the post, I was thinking what an awesome idea it was. I loved it, and I was definitely leaving a comment, and then I saw you flatter me.  Thank you for mentioning me, and I'm glad that I could inspire such an amazing positive post. I've had a great time on Senior Sizzle. Aside from the physical connections, it was my first time blogging and it was truly great the way the community embraced me. Again, thank you for me mention. Now I just have to figure out a way to include your link (I never learned any of that)  Sweet Kisses
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Your ass is so very wonderful and I would kiss it for you honey
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You have a wonderful body baby and I would love to meet you
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