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My "Odd Then, Fantastic Now" Aspect of Sex - The Sixth Virtual Symposium
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My "Odd Then, Fantastic Now" Aspect of Sex - The Sixth Virtual Symposium Tomorrow is my birthday so I am posting my contribution to humorguaranteed Odd Then, Fantastic Now Is The Topic For The Sixth Virtual Symposium early as I have a full agenda. Hope you enjoy. It goes without saying that our bodies contain a complex plethora of nerves designed to stimulate sexual pleasure. Even seemingly unlikely body parts can be intense pleasure centers when fully aroused. Rimming, also called anilingus, refers to making oral-anal contact. While sometimes a precursor to anal sex, rimming is a form of stimulation that can be its own means to an erotic end. My interest in giving a rim job was piqued by my partner's enthusiasm and encouragement during oral sex. Because rimming increases risk for exposure to bacteria and disease, I normally wouldn't have even considered such a thing but we were in a trusting monogamous relationship, both freshly showered, and I was incredibly aroused at seeing the enjoyment I was giving my partner so I went for it. Let me say that I am glad I did. Adding an unusual sensory element to the sensitive nerves in the nether region produced an incredibly explosive orgasm for my partner. Being sexually submissive, nothing gives me more pleasure than giving my partner a mind-blowing orgasm. Since then, I have been an occasional recipient of anilingus. While I enjoy receiving a rim job as a precursor to anal sex, I must confess that I enjoy rimming as a compliment to oral sex with my partner. Many people mistakenly characterize rimming as an exclusively gay activity because of its association with anal sex, but in my research, I found that heterosexual, lesbian, and gay partners all enjoy rimming, sometimes as foreplay or on its own. Obviously, trust and communication, like all sexual explorations between consensual partners, are key components to mutually enjoyable rimming. Like any sex act, it's vital to protect yourself and your partner by practicing safer rimming. Dental dams offer great protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Condoms can be cut carefully down the middle to become an impromptu dental dam, and additionally, adding lube to the situation will help protect and add pleasure. Have you experienced giving or receiving anilingus? If you decide to try anilingus, remember to play safe when it comes to using protection. Hopefully you will enjoy adding this experience to your sexual repertoire as much as I did.  |
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My first serious interaction with anal anything was with someone I met a few years ago. She was passing through and we decided to get together. As she was going down on me I was quite surprised as she went lower and lower. It was one of those "what the hell" moments. So I let her keep going. Definitely a lot of nerves down there. LOL I would have to say I'm a fan of limited anal play. Then there is my sometimes partner who has always teased me a little bit there when we are 69ing. If I am able to get back together with her sometime, I'll make sure she knows that she can play a little more back there.  After we shower.
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I'm not sure why people are embarrassed or tentative to confess to enjoying rimming. Isn't it all about pleasure? I really enjoy it when a partner enjoys rimming as much as I do. When the right amount of foreplay has occurred and a sexy lady performs a nice rim job on me (and really gets into it), I lose control. At that time, the lady could ask me to do anything and I would probably comply. There is just something about rimming that drives me crazy. But, of course, as with any sexual experience, everything makes it so much more enjoyable if a hot sexy bath or shower together to start the night off is on the schedule.....
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I'm a huge fan of rimming, both giving and receiving. Happy Birthday girl!! Did you see about next M+G down here, April 18? Sweet Potato Fries HNW, Before and After InBetween Bawdy Toast for St Paddy39s Day [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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Perhaps the most valuable part of your post -- which was wonderful, by the way -- was the affirmation that everyone -- male, female, straight, gay, bi, pan, omni -- has an anus. The only barrier to exploring it should by hygiene. Well put... and well participated! Thank you for being part of the virtual symposium! Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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I have given and received rim jobs, it is an extremely erotic experience.
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I've had some partners who go absolutely nuts (ha) when rimmed and I'm with you...it's awesome to be the giver of that much mind-blowing pleasure. I really enjoy it as well. For me, part of what makes it even more pleasurable than just the physical sensations is the "forbidden" nature of it. And yes, clean is REQUIRED! Happy happy happy! I hope you have a wonderful celebration (or two or three) and that it's your best year yet! xoxo Always tell the truth Use kind words Keep your promises Giggle and laugh Be positive Love one another Always be grateful Forgiveness is mandatory Try new things Say please and thank you Say your prayers Smile ~Author unknown
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Rimming is a very under-rated but wonderful activity! 
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 What a great post you've written! Plenty of people are still shy of this topic, even if they practice it and often when they consider themselves to be a bit kinky. I do rim my partner and we both enjoy it. As you point out it's a great feeling to be able to give that extra dimension of pleasure to a lover.This is a fine essay. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Happy Birthday!!! What can I say, exploration is fun and rewarding and cleanliness makes for more places to explore. It certainly is a sensitive area isn't it? Vive La Difference
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Love the post! I haven't ever been rimmed or rimmed anyone yet, although it's definitely in the plans. I just recently got into anal play and loving it, the way it drives someone wild, to play with their ass, is ecstasy in itself. And Happy Birthday Myelin! Hopefully you get to give or receive a little tongue for your birthday  .
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It's been so long since I gave a guy this pleasure I've forgotten what it's like. As a 'giver' I do miss it.
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I have to admit that the first time someone rimmed me, I had a dress on and a g-string panty. He was fingering me around the g-string, and getting me all hot and horny, while we were in a car in a parking lot, late at night. He had me, open my window, and with my ass towards him, lean out my window. Under the skirt he went with his head, and he rimmed me. That was so fucking hot, I came. Now was it ideal? No. I was not freshly showered, and it was spontaneous. Not an ideal situation. Just because it was not ideal, it was hot, hot, hot. Now I am like you in my prep for this- everyone should be freshly showered and there has to be a trust there. Clean is a must. Great post, and I love this topic! Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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It was originally yukky for me, then one man shook like the earth was on fire when I was did it. Then I got it. Love the responses! "To Be Consumed" Blog : I want to be your drug of painful withdrawals.
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I've never given but I have received. It's never really done anything for me... but if my partner is into doing it then I let him. It pretty much just feels odd to me.
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Thank you for the frank and open-minded post, meilin36. You never let me down. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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It,s a fantastic pleasure and I love giving as well as receiving. Too many people frown upon it when they hear it and should really give it a try. They have no idea of the pleasure that is received or given.
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HI, IS THIER any one that might beable to help, me out,i was wanting to know if any one knows were there are a group or friends that are oriential ladys,young that would want to enjoy this anyway , i would love to know if any one could talk to them and see if they would want to come to me ,and their are manyof them ,i am wanting to know if they do get talked about ,i want to see if they we could let them come ,and they all strip down and show everyone how built they are ,do think that they might have wanted to go to the cematyery ,well i wrote all of you now ,but would you all still all want to see what i have got, and if you come could you bring my cell phone , i hope that is all you wanted in the from the lawn and the srewed tomaddoes
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