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Blogs > tulsaliza > The Mature Sex Goddess

Making Love or Fucking?  

tulsaliza 65F
5485 posts
8/30/2011 4:01 am
Making Love or Fucking?
How do you refer to the act of sex here on this site? I found it rather funny to read one of my e-mails where the guy said he was going to get right to the point, he wants to get together and "make love" to me.

The first thought that popped into my head was the title of a song, what does "love" have to do with it? Yes, I think there comes a point in a relationship where the act of sex is also an act of love.

However, on a sex site, "love" has nothing to do with sexual activities...at least, not to me!!!

I've never been a woman that had to have "love" in order to have sex. I have gone way back to high school and I can honestly say I've never associated sex with love...to me sex is a physical gratification of the body. Yes, I have to be attracted to someone to a certain extent, but for the most part, I can engage in sex without emotions coming into play.

Do I want a man to "make love" to me? No. Not really. I want a man that wants to engage in satisfying sex. I want to feel and enjoy the pleasure of sex, especially if this sexual encounter is to be a one time get together or a steady thing of some sort.

Now, the term, fucking when referring to sex, that's a little more brutal, but it is what it is, fucking. Perhaps a more gentle approach would be to engage in sex. For a three letter word, sex covers a lot of activity...fucking, well, fucking is simple engaging in intercourse...intercourse sounds so clinical.

So, I really don't care for either reference, making love or fucking...I prefer to engage in sex. How about you? How do you refer to sex? Share with me...

Which reference do you prefer when referring to sex between two people? How do you refer to the act of sex?

Pick one of the options I've provided or share with me your own reference or preference!!!
Making love
Fucking
Sex
Intercourse
Let's get it on

Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure...
- Lord Byron, Don Juan
mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
8/30/2011 2:11 pm

 Sorry I said making love. I am a prude I quess.
This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
8/31/2011 8:24 pm

 “Sex” is the all-encompassing choice. Sometimes it might be fucking, sometimes it might be making love. Sometimes it might be both with the same person in the same night. Who knows where it leads. Isn’t that part of the thrill?

Sorry
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_The_Shining_ 60M

9/3/2011 8:08 am

 All of the above.


learningcurve101 59F

9/4/2011 6:32 am

 I've always thought of "Making love" as something Married couples do, you know, like the missionary position? Don't get me wrong, missionary can be good, but that isn't my favorite position to be in.

When it comes right down to it, I prefer fucking or sex. I just depends on the "tempermant" of the man, and the mood of the moment.

Let's face it, a good Fucking, can straighten out your bad day and or attitude. Just my opinion.


Harddrivernu69 56M  
52 posts
9/5/2011 12:29 pm
    Quoting learningcurve101:
    I've always thought of "Making love" as something Married couples do, you know, like the missionary position? Don't get me wrong, missionary can be good, but that isn't my favorite position to be in.

    When it comes right down to it, I prefer fucking or sex. I just depends on the "tempermant" of the man, and the mood of the moment.

    Let's face it, a good Fucking, can straighten out your bad day and or attitude. Just my opinion.
Sex or Fucking, both have the same end result. So cum here an let me give you sex an a hard fucking lol
Hard driving it hard in her


rm_SARAGREG4FUN 65M/59F
88 posts
9/13/2011 10:10 am

 I make love to my hubby. I fuck my b'friends....


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