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Do You Wanna Chat?  

tulsaliza 65F
5485 posts
9/18/2009 8:40 am
Do You Wanna Chat?


Every time I turn on my Instant Messenger, I get a guy that wants to engage in "cyber sex." There was a time when I was all about cyber sex...way back at the beginning of my internet sex discovery...gosh, that would be about 12 to 14-years ago??

I enjoyed being seduced and even<b> fuck </font></b>via instant messenger...I wasn't getting any kind of sexual attention at home, so, in my my mind, cyber sex was a way to get sexual attention and sexually gratify myself without having someone actually right there with me physically. In my mind, I was not "cheating" just indulging in connecting without someone but not actually doing it "in person." Amazing how one can justify what they're doing, isn't it?

Of course, if my efforts stopped at cyber sex, that would be one thing, but it didn't. If I was getting all this attention "online" then why not get it "in person?" I was all about taking that risk, taking that chance of getting caught...so much so, I scare myself thinking back of all the sexual get togethers I planned out, as well as carried out. I wasn't afraid to cross that line from cyber into reality...it was such a rush, such a thrill...the more danger, the more I liked it!! I was VERY, VERY lucky, I only encounter one really crazy guy.

Anyway, I've done my share of cyber sex over the years...it doesn't have the same appeal that it first did...in fact, it really has no form of appeal for me at all now. I can chat, I can cyber chat but am I "into" it? No. Chatting is a means of communication, much like talking on the phone...it's sometimes necessary and I'll endure it...do I want to do it? Not particularly. But I do enjoy knowing that I can provide some sort of sexual excitement for whomever I am chatting with if that's what they're into...I've even given thought to signing up with one of those cyber services or even a phone sex service and get paid for providing sex talk/chat!!!

Once in a great while, like this morning, I found myself amused at cyber chatting...a 36-year-old male, in Texas was wanting to cyber chat. I thought, okay, this might be fun, I'll see how revved up I can get him, who knows, maybe even get him off...me, I could careless and no, my pussy wasn't even luke-warm!!! But it was fun to think I could<b> fuck </font></b>this guy over the IM...we get to chatting, I'm telling him I'm sitting in front of the computer naked...I describe my body, making myself all sexy, hot and wet...we're going along in our cyber sex chat and the guy asks me if I'm married...WTF????

Am I married? Sure, I'm married...I decided it would be a nice twist to things...he asked me if I was alone? Again, WTF? I'm suddenly no longer interested, what difference does it make if I'm married or single? What difference does it make if I'm alone or in the middle of an office full of people...this is fucking cyber sex!!!

Next question, he wants to know if I'm into phone sex? No, I'm not into phone sex, I'm not into cyber sex but I was willing to chat along with you and get you off but all your questions have turned me to complete and total shit...thanks, but I'm no longer interested in any of it!!!

I always go to my IM archives when a guy first pops up, to see if I've chatted with the guy before. I've chatted with this guy about 5 times in the past couple of years...it is always a brief chat about whether or not I'm into cyber sex...he lucked out this morning, I was interested in cyber sex chatting but ruined it when he wanted more...

How about you? Are you into cyber sex chatting? Do you actually get off sexually or do you play along, saying all the sexy things and hoping whoever you're chatting with is enjoying all the sexy banter?

If you do cyber chat, do you like to see how far you can get the person to go that you're chatting with? By this, I am referring to chatting on web cam...phone sex...do you like to see how far you can get a person to open up to you and you to them?

Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure...
- Lord Byron, Don Juan


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
9/18/2009 11:30 am

I adore chatting, though the chat on this site RARELY works. Like everyone I’ve met here, I use the Y. I really can’t wait to get far enough along to exchange that info and really start to get to know the other person. As you said Liza, it is like talking to them.

While my chats are definitely flirty, they very rarely become cyber-sex. Not that I’m opposed to that really, just that I find it an extremely poor substitute for the real thing, and would prefer to use the time laying the ground work for a skin-on-skin encounter. Likewise for phone sex ‒ I have done it, but it is not a big thing for me.

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tulsaliza replies on 9/19/2009 9:29 am:
I've never been able to get the damned chat here on Senior Sizzle to work...like you, I can be found at the Y under the same ID as here on Senior Sizzle. You're right, chatting and phone sex is simply not what the "live and in person" encounter turns out to be!!

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