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Communication, Essential.  

tulsaliza 66F
5486 posts
11/18/2008 5:14 am
Communication, Essential.


I found myself watching the clock, as well as pushing my elderly sex partner away last night. He just wasn't understanding that when I say "gentle" or "too hard," I'm serious...back off with the pressure of your mouth and tongue.

Instead, my friend felt compelled to suck and nibble with his teeth upon my delicate labia lips and very tiny, sensitive clit. OUCH!!!!! I promptly pushed his head back away, which he said he had no idea he was being too rough...uh, yeah, don't suck hard and use your teeth on my puss!!

This man is at least 20-years older than I am. He has<b> erectile dysfunction </font></b>of major proportion. Unfortunate for him, women his age that are interested in sex are few and far between...which isn't a problem for me, but GD, you're going to eat my pussy the way "I" like it or you're not going to eat my pussy!!

Once my terrorized pussy had calmed down a bit, I was over-stimulated and loosing interest by the second...I instructed my partner that I was serious, very light, feathery flicks of the tongue on my clit sends me into orgasmic bliss...over-stimulate me and you turn me to shit, nothing, ouchy...do it my way or our play time is done. My friend indicated that he understood, he approached with much more caution...his tongue took a much lighter approach and that felt oh, so good...I cooed and moaned my appreciation...I wanted to give him the pleasure of making me cum...but, it was not to be. He just couldn't hold the connection with his hungry mouth...when he resorted to using his fingers...i.e. his thumb, I reciprocated with a nice "fake" orgasm to move things along. I was tired when we started from my day at the office and my friend was draining the rest of the energy out of me by having to be so firm in my communication on how I wanted my pussy eaten.

Oh yes, I faked it, I faked the orgasm. My friend is hard of hearing which makes me wonder if he heard half of what I told him with regard to pleasuring me...I wasn't rude or too gruff with him, just wanted to move him along. He's a lonely old man, that just enjoys sharing his sexuality with a naked woman in his arms. He loves to cuddle and talk about himself, I'm fine with that...I feel my purpose is also as a confidante...I knew he was missing his sex partner of 47-years, she passed the October before last and his current "girlfriend" has a myriad of health issues which has tremendously curbed her appetite for sex.

I listened with interest as we concluded our time together. I realized that even though I communicate quite well with my friends, like this elderly friend, they need to communicate about what it is they are seeking, what they want...which, when I listen carefully, as I did last night...sometimes it isn't necessarily about the sex, but about being a good ear, as well as friend.

Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure...
- Lord Byron, Don Juan


BlackHeatLust 54M

11/18/2008 6:43 am

I will listen to every word that you say Liza and would NEVER treat your clit and vagina that way!!


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tulsaliza replies on 11/19/2008 4:26 am:
I know you would BlackHeatLust, I know you would.

Simply_smiling14 58F
6062 posts
11/18/2008 7:41 pm

God bless you. I think if I had him eating me like that I would have reciprocated and bit his flaccid penis to make sure he never does get the long lost erection again. You should be sainted.

Cheryl




tulsaliza replies on 11/19/2008 4:28 am:
Certainly not sainted...I would like to think I'm providing this man, as well as others, with the human contact they crave, even though it is of a sexual nature.

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