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Ok, so Christmas is rapidly approaching...  

whoisagentj 54M
662 posts
11/16/2017 10:36 am

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11/16/2017 12:21 pm

Ok, so Christmas is rapidly approaching...


Yeah yeah, it's not even Thanksgiving yet. I know, right? Trust me, I'm a firm believer of trying to ignore the stores pushing Christmas down our throats, but now that Thanksgiving is a week away, I can't ignore it any longer. I know some people, like myself get affected by SAD, and trust me, it's real. SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) is when some people have had either traumatic events happen to them during the holiday season, like a recent death in the family that happens around the holidays or dealing with the stress of life around the holidays can make people feel depressed, lonely and alone, stressed out or just effect them mentally and emotionally. Sure the holidays are a good time, but things can trigger them, like the shortness of the daytime light.

Now before some of you go, "Oh if you are effected and triggered by SAD, maybe you should just "MAN UP" or "get a backbone, you weak person you."

NO. Just NO. Depression is real, and for you to say that is wrong. Other people are different than you, so why would you have less sympathy for what others have to cope with? Have you walked a mile in their shoes, felt what they have felt, dealt with what they have had to deal with? No, you haven't. So instead of being unsympathetic to others, understand not everyone deals with things the same thing.

OK, with that said, for people with SAD...it can be treated and dealt with. Light therapy helps, staying in brightly lit areas, as well as talking to your doctor if possible about going on temporary anti-depressants that might help. But ultimately, if you feel effected by SAD, check with your doctor to advise help.

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On a related note, since Christmas is right around the corner, I have to start<b> shopping </font></b>for my . And while things are tight this year, I'm going to do my best to help them get what they want.

But to be honest...I started thinking about myself. I never get what I want for Christmas, but I pray to God my one wish is to find someone as kinky as me, who has a large sex drive, and ultimately will be the last person I ever have to search for here. Unless she's bi, then I might be open to letting her play a bit as long as we can enjoy that person together. BUT....I still haven't found her yet, so...hopefully I can find the right woman someday soon. But if that can't happen, maybe I can get a scratch off lottery ticket for a million bucks? LOL!

I never get what I want for Christmas. But, when life gets you down, you gotta keep plugging away people. I got to believe somewhere down the road, life will cut me a really good break. And that's the best advice I can give for this Christmas. No matter what happens, no matter if you are poor, or life gets you down, you gotta keep taking the hits, keep plugging away, keep fighting and most importantly...KEEP LIVING. Do not give up on life. Please...don't give up. And if you feel that life is getting you down, and you want to end it all, and you've read this...by all means...contact me. Leave me a private message (VIA MY PRIVATE MESSAGES at the top of my blog here, because I can't read messages sent here, I am a STANDARD MEMBER here), and talk to me. I will be more than happy to talk to you and be there for you.

With that said, hang in there! God bless, and peace unto you.

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


ltrskr 75M

11/16/2017 11:33 am

Not to worry about returning my gift, I got u the same thing as last year!


whoisagentj replies on 11/16/2017 11:56 am:
Peace on earth and good will toward all men and women? Oh ltrskr, you shouldn't have! That's my favorite gift of all!

whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
11/16/2017 10:40 am

With this all said, here is the lyrics from one of my favorite songs...

Don't Give Up

Peter Gabriel w/Kate Bush

In this proud land we grew up strong
We were wanted all along
I was taught to fight, taught to win
I never thought I could fail

No fight left or so it seems
I am a man whose dreams have all deserted
I've changed my face, I've changed my name
But no one wants you when you lose

Don't give up
'cause you have friends
Don't give up
You're not beaten yet
Don't give up
I know you can make it good

Though I saw it all around
Never thought I could be affected
Thought that wed be the last to go
It is so strange the way things turn

Drove the night toward my home
The place that I was born, on the lakeside
As daylight broke, I saw the earth
The trees had burned down to the ground


Don't give up
You still have us
Don't give up
We don't need much of anything
Don't give up
Cause somewhere there's a place
Where we belong

Rest your head
You worry too much
Its going to be alright
When times get rough
You can fall back on us
Don't give up
Please don't give up

Got to walk out of here
I can't take anymore
Going to stand on that bridge
Keep my eyes down below
Whatever may come
And whatever may go
That rivers flowing
That rivers flowing

Moved on to another town
Tried hard to settle down
For every job, so many men
So many men no-one needs

Don't give up
You still have us
Don't give up now
Were proud of who you are
Don't give up
You know its never been easy
Don't give up
Cause I believe there's the a place
There's a place where we belong

Songwriters: PETER GABRIEL

© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC

For non-commercial use only.

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


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