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Make sure to use your IM privies!
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Make sure to use your IM privies! Ok, one of the cool things here is that at least the site allows basic members to at least chat with 5 people a day. So even if you cannot pay to use the site, the site at least allows you to chat with up to 5 different people a day. Which is as least somewhat cool. Back in the day they allowed you to chat constantly, but at least they didn't fully take away all of the perks here. But for guys like myself, this is a huge perk. WHY? Because if you know how to manage it right, out of those 5 times, you can at least get one of them to talk to you, IF...you know how to do it right. 1) Pick someone you think you'll connect with. Hopefully, try to check out if they are into guys or gals, or couples, or depending on what they are looking for. Sometimes though this might not work because even if someone says they are into a particular sex or race, they might not be interested because they've changed flavors. Yeah it's possible. Does that suck? YES. But it is what it is. 2) Do as much info searching on them as you can to before you message them. It helps to be prepared. Like if they have a blog, do they post erotic stories, or have a regular webcam they do? Getting the info helps. Then after you get the info, get a notepad and write that user handle down so when they are ONLINE you can see if they are willing to take a message via IM. 3) One you have determined your five... talk to one of them at a time. Do not ruin it by trying to juggle to chats at the same time. You will mix shit up, I can guarantee it. Focus on that one person you are talking to so that you can engage in actual conversation. 4) Do not use TEXT SPEAK! Nothing is more annoying to me than a person that does not take the time to use complete sentences! Unless you are both in your early 20's and both use that. Otherwise, just don't. You will look like an unintelligent baboon. 5) When you begin to chat with that person....BE POLITE. EXTREMELY POLITE. Yes this is a sex website for adult chat and hookups, I get it. But if you talk in a polite manner, that person will be more forgiving if you happen to make a etiquette mistake. 6) If he or she is not into you, for example, you are a guy and you got the wrong info and she is strictly into women only because she already has a husband and she's only looking for women or guys from couples, then quickly apologize and say "I'm sorry, I didn't know that info because I'm a basic member and I wasn't privy to that information." Then excuse yourself and say thank you and have a good day/night. Being polite does not cost you anything. But if that person sees you as polite, they might recommend you to another member friend and say, "Hey I have a friend on here, she might be interested in you..." Chances are this will not happen, but in being polite, you play your cards right, and they can provide nice character witnesses or at least a testimonial saying "Hey I'm not into guys, but I chatted with this guy and he was really polite and cool with me, so hit this guy up ladies!" Lesbian women can also be bro's and help in the bro code to help you get hooked up. Respect them and they can help you out! 7) You've talked. He or She says hello! And they might be interested! Be calm, and be cool. Crack a joke or two! But above all be yourself! Unless you are an asshole. Then don't be yourself. Be a decent person. And then after a bit of conversation, see if they would be willing to trade info to where you can take the conversation offline, like getting her number and see if you two can get together. If he or she is ok with it, then QA'PLA!!!! (That is Klingonese for SUCCESS!) Above all, using the IM here is highly important and can help your chances of meeting people here work out. And if not, you might just make a friend or a possible person to help you get connected with someone else who MIGHT get you the hookup. Now is it perfect here? No....not all of the time. Let's face it guys, some of you've damaged it here for a lot of good guys here with shitty attitudes and being rude as fuck. And you get pouty and salty as fuck when you get<b> rejected. </font></b>As I've said before, rejection sucks, but you've gotta deal with it. It's life. But stop fucking it up for the rest of us men here. Well...hope this helps some of you guys and gals out so you can get laid. It's the least I can do to help the masses here. Thanks for reading! PEACE! Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent  |
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By the way bro, thanks for stopping by! I appreciate it! Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent
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Good advice....being polite does help. I rarely IM on here, but I definitely will NOT answer a "want to fuck" or "can we hook up tonight" IM. Those get ignored, and I'd bet a lot of women do the same. Good luck!  Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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yep I tried to be very nice and honest and I usually find that my IMS never go through and when they do its only like a hello how are ya then they stop working......
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Hope this helps! Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent
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