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Delimma !!!!
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Delimma !!!! you have a fwb and one exciting night you invited your best friend to join the party for a threesome. after a few weeks your best friend tells you that they are now dating? what would you do? would you stop sleeping with the fwb ? would you feel betrayed by your best friend? would you be open to more threesomes? |
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2/5/2019 2:15 am |
If they are your friends and they are happy together you should be happy for them. If you feel jealous, maybe it is sort of natural, but it might also show that you might have been developing feelings unwarranted. Obviously your friends are not opposed to the idea of adding a third or more, an invitation will quite probably be forthcoming. Meanwhile as an attractive, sexually adventurous, take charge kind of woman I doubt that you will have much in the way of finding a next partner who might even be a trade up. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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2/5/2019 2:51 am |
it is my understanding that fwb do their fucking when the two are not in relationships. when one is in a relationship the other steps back. now the other dilemma... the threesome thing! well for me threesome's and the statment " I don't like to share." can not be put together so the way i see it... step back, respect your friendships... and if they breakup you can fuck his brains out then. there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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If he was just a FWB then you should be happy for your best friend. On the subject of threesomes you should ask your best friend first. I don't think you should keep your FWB without your friends knowledge or consent. The best case would be 2 FWBs lol
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2/5/2019 3:16 am |
Reminds them u are Fwb. Lay down the law or you will get walked on.
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Initially I'd feel devastated, disappointed & butt, they say it is what it is!! I'd have to take it with a grain of slat wishing them all the best. .
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Umm Dilemma .... wait lemma look that un up ... First attested 1523, from Late Latin dilemma, from Ancient Greek δίλημμα (dílēmma, “ambiguous proposition”), from δι- (di-, “having two of”) + λῆμμα (lêmma, “premise, proposition”). A dilemma (Greek: δίλημμα "double proposition") is a problem offering two possibilities, neither of which is unambiguously acceptable or preferable. The possibilities are termed the horns of the dilemma, a clichéd usage, but distinguishing the dilemma from other kinds of predicament as a matter of usage . So what are the two choices again? . Deconstruction is the method of applying problems presented as dualities or dilemmas so as to reveal hidden within a third previously unknown variable or option that until hidden was an output that while hidden seemed to be a price. . What do you consider the dilemma in your presented problem and what do U think is the third hidden variable, and what does revealing it do for you? . Until then this is the best Frank Zappa song I can find to illustrate he was a funny man and genius composer: Big Leg Emma: There's a big dilemma 'Bout my Big Leg Emma, uh-huh, oh yeah There's a big dilemma 'Bout my Big Leg Emma, uh-huh, oh yeah She used to knock me out Until her face broke out There's a big dilemma 'Bout my Big Leg Emma, uh-huh, oh yeah There's a big dilemma 'Bout my Big Leg Emma, uh-huh, oh yeah She was my steady date Until she put on weight na-na-na-na na-na-na-na na-na-na-na na-na-na-na na-na-na-na na-na-na-na na-na-na-na na-na-na-na na-na-na-na na-na boogedy boogedy[/] it sounds like problem of quality vs quantity .. that old classic canard ... like turning our the time space continuum into the space time hour of leisure. tl;dr - not a dilemma unless you describe the pros and cons of each choice and show them to seem mutually exclusive .. for extra cred.
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Wwcnpd?
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Wish them well and move on. I dont share (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Wish them well and move on. I dont share And fix your profile- it's all canned messages you picked off the site list-says nothing about the real you (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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2/7/2019 1:04 am |
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Think it is customary to invite them over and get them drunk and tatto your name on both her tits and on his dick .
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Talk with then both. Truth is usually best in the long run.. However no matter what is said here you most likely already know what you're going to do.  
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I would be sad at the prospect of losing a fwb, but my best friend's happiness is my happiness. My fwb's happiness is my happiness, too. I'm going to assume everyone is sexually open and expressive. If they are open to threesomes, join. If not, time to find another fwb. DO NOT lose a best friend over a man. He's only a fwb.
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1 post 2/15/2019 10:41 pm |
First FWB are just FWB. You can't expect to be their only "friend" to begin with. With that said, you and your best friend should have a very clear understanding of rules and boundaries before engaging in such activities. If my best friend and my FWB connected on that level, I would respect their relationship. After awhile I would see if we could all indulge in more 3some play-time again.
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