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lets get it on baby  

wickedcat2006 49F  
725 posts
3/9/2015 9:23 pm
lets get it on baby


after a woman have a .(6wks)........how do you rekindle the sex life?

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
3/9/2015 9:36 pm

In between feeding and changing diapers, it's not easy, that's for sure !!!!


Woodyeverready 65M
1187 posts
3/9/2015 10:36 pm

From my experience, 6 weeks is still too early. Mind you, I only had 2 children with my wife, and I am sure every woman is somewhat different, but still....

Woodrow J. Evers


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
3/11/2015 11:38 pm

It all depends on physical recovery after the birth experience. For some women, the typical medical advice of waiting six weeks is torture. For other women, things are still injured down there, and six weeks isn't enough. For some couples, the parts are ready, but the emotions are not. In some cases, it's not even the new mother who is slowing down resumption of sex; sometimes the partner is too exhausted, sometimes freaked out about the changes in the new mother's body, sometimes simply over-cautious about expressing desire too soon.

Free time is definitely an issue. But if the baby is asleep, and the parents are awake, it's a great way to make sure that the parents don't completely lose their identities as a couple. Neglecting a baby is absolutely unacceptable, but neglecting the relationship between parents is a bad idea too, because -- if the relationship is solely about being parents together -- the relationship might suffer. And if the relationship suffers too much, the baby is likely to suffer too, either from the effects of parental separation, or from the effects of living with parents who don't care for each other any more.

So, what if medical issues don't allow resumption of relations? One answer is "non-penetrative sex".

And what if it's emotional issues that are getting in the way of resuming a sex life? In that case, seeking counseling is probably a good idea, whether it's from the medical people at well-baby visits, a relationship counselor, or someone else. Relationship counseling is particularly important if there is a significant disparity in desire.

What if it's simply a matter of free time and exhaustion? In that case, if everything else is working, before too long, the couple is going to make time for it, even if it means getting busy while half asleep, or ending up half asleep the next day.


Negril43 71M
4037 posts
4/6/2015 11:07 am

After six weeks Cindy breast feeding Cindy Jane Malone was hotter than Georgia asphalt . A blooming volcano . Like a candle in the wind dang near burnt my dick DWL


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