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Too much to ask??  

bettiebear 47F
351 posts
5/4/2016 1:14 am
Too much to ask??


Is it really to much to ask to find someone who wants me for me?

who will love, care and respect me?

someone who just wants to cuddle up, hold my hand and make love to me?

I have a partner who has no interest at all in me ......

I had a lover/friend with benefits....... he lost interest (he was married!!)

I just want to find someone who is just like me.....

who loves the countryside, who wants a quiet life, someone who is loving, caring, honest, not married, someone who would die for me, someone who wants to spend the rest of their life with me, someone who really thinks the world of me,

I will be 40 this year and I really don't want to watch another 20 odd years just be wasted and drift on by,

I don't want to be taken advantage of, I don't want to be treated like crap, I don't want to be the bottom of the list,

I just want to be happy and loved and have someone who treats me like their everything, just like I want them to be my everything,

I just want to be loved and wanted,

is it really to much to ask??

xoxoxoxoxoxo




Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
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PyschoLoco 61M
1550 posts
5/4/2016 1:31 am

On this site it might be asking too much. But in life it happens everyday, try a vanilla dating site. There's still lying sick aholes but it seems like the ratio is lower. It's a little easier to find people looking for a real relationship.

Standards are people too.....kinda


xxxsasaxxxx 49M
719 posts
5/4/2016 1:35 am

Mmmmm so nice >>!


DinAZ1 41M

5/4/2016 1:52 am

that is not too much to ask, I hope you find what you want!


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/4/2016 2:00 am

You don't have to waste another 20 years.You made a decision 20 years ago
and you could have changed that.It's hard to have sympathy for someone who themselves have none.

Using more than all the road!


lomileage5 68M
10248 posts
5/4/2016 2:19 am

It doesn't seem to be too much to ask......but precious life ticks by,and I continue to wait&search also


Someones_Dutchy 64M
2897 posts
5/4/2016 3:10 am

You deserve that special someone sweetie and really hope you find him, it will be hard to find that someone but don't give up hope .

&

hey ... i'm Someone

_ _ _ _ _

it's better to live and do the things today than to be sorry tomorrow


Great_eight 58M
1561 posts
5/4/2016 3:12 am

You have a partner and yet you seek someone who is not married and wants to spend the rest of their life with you? That sounds unrealistic.

As a person with a partner you are not in a position to offer a single man anything they cannot find from a single woman.

"I have a partner who has no interest at all in me". This statement sets you up for short term flings and failure, you need to get your house in order first.


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
5/4/2016 6:21 am

It is possible!! ......It probably is highly unlikely on this site but not impossible.
I know what it's like to be with someone who doesn't seem to have any interest.
You know from personal experience how relationships end when one is married.....
I hope you can find what you look for....and don't just settle.....you deserve what you look for.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
5/4/2016 8:49 am

Of course it's not too much to ask. I sincerely hope you find what you are looking for


kukoocock 54M
5836 posts
5/4/2016 9:45 am

Fingers crossed for you, remember you are young still the battle is trying to stay positive about it. One day you will find they guy BB say it and believe it.



There are two kinds of light, the glow that illuminates & the glare that obscures. James Thurber


VenusRising11 71F
4677 posts
5/4/2016 3:08 pm

Hi Bettie, I agree with kukoocock. Hang in there. Sending you love.

Kat



Venus Rising

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Nourish my mind.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:20 am

    Quoting  :

I think ur right xoxoxo

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:21 am

    Quoting  :

It did to me.... but hey I think its just too much.
xoxoxox


Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:22 am

    Quoting  :

Indeed it can be, I think I will just give up and what will be will be. xoxoxox

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:23 am

    Quoting PyschoLoco:
    On this site it might be asking too much. But in life it happens everyday, try a vanilla dating site. There's still lying sick aholes but it seems like the ratio is lower. It's a little easier to find people looking for a real relationship.
I'm sure some where out there in this big old world there are lots of wonderful men, just a shame they are no where in sight for me!! xoxoxox

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:24 am

Thank you xx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:27 am

    Quoting aaaaaa543378:
    So sad for you,did you want to be tied down to the married lover,best be shot of him,i think you just need some tlc,to be taken care of by someone who treats you with kindness and respect,of how they would want to be treated in the same way,well if you at a loose end,i certainly would not mind keeping you company,but only if you would like to
The married lover wasn't the smartest idea and I knew it would never go any where but just feeling sad after being with him for 8 and a bit years..... TLC, kindness and respect would be nice.... that's a very kind offer xoxoxo

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:30 am

    Quoting  :

I admire the fact that this works for you, I really do I do kinda see where u r coming from.... I just wish that I could find the one real special person who I could be happy with and spend the rest of my life with. xoxoxo

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:31 am

    Quoting DinAZ1:
    that is not too much to ask, I hope you find what you want!
I really do think and feel like I am asking for too much, who knows maybe I will one day find what I am looking for. xoxoxox

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:33 am

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    You don't have to waste another 20 years.You made a decision 20 years ago
    and you could have changed that.It's hard to have sympathy for someone who themselves have none.
Thank you for taking the time to stop by and leave a comment. xoxoxo

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:34 am

    Quoting lomileage5:
    It doesn't seem to be too much to ask......but precious life ticks by,and I continue to wait&search also
Its scary how quick the years tick by..... I hope u too find what ever it is u r looking for. xoxoxox

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:35 am

    Quoting Someones_Dutchy:
    You deserve that special someone sweetie and really hope you find him, it will be hard to find that someone but don't give up hope .

    &

    hey ... i'm Someone
thank u love...... isn't it a shame so many of the nice someones seem to live so far far away, big hugs xoxoxoxo

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:36 am

    Quoting Great_eight:
    You have a partner and yet you seek someone who is not married and wants to spend the rest of their life with you? That sounds unrealistic.

    As a person with a partner you are not in a position to offer a single man anything they cannot find from a single woman.

    "I have a partner who has no interest at all in me". This statement sets you up for short term flings and failure, you need to get your house in order first.
Thank you for taking the time to stop by and leave a comment. xx

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:42 am

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    It is possible!! ......It probably is highly unlikely on this site but not impossible.
    I know what it's like to be with someone who doesn't seem to have any interest.
    You know from personal experience how relationships end when one is married.....
    I hope you can find what you look for....and don't just settle.....you deserve what you look for.
I'm not sure it is possible, but hey I shall just continue on with life and concentrate on all the other things which r far more important. I should of stopped things before they started but I didn't and 8 and a bit years on and it hurts like hell!! big hugs to u my lovely xoxoxoxox

Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


bettiebear 47F
21001 posts
5/5/2016 5:43 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Of course it's not too much to ask. I sincerely hope you find what you are looking for
Thank u my love who knows maybe one day in the future I will
big hugs xoxoxox


Life is what we make it, so let's make it good!!!
come visit my blog bettiebear
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away.


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