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rm_luveniax 50F
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6/10/2007 8:24 am
Question-

Yeah first post-
just started this blog.
Joined this site awhile ago and have been fortunate and have met a few people and have had a lot of fun.
Last night I was talking to a friend, someone that I have confided in about the dirty details because lets face it somethings you have to share.
Anyway she asked an interesting question that if anyone reads this would love to hear their opinion on it.

Is there any guilt?

Personally I don't, mostly because of my situation, technically could divorce on the grounds of the lack of sex, but that's another story. And do not feel guilty about the other person mainly because they are an<b> adult </font></b>and are responsible for their own actions.

Is it wrong to feel like this?

rm_1QuietBlonde 64M
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6/10/2007 9:09 am

 welcome to blog land !!


SlutMaster6776 57M/48F
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6/10/2007 10:01 am

 Hi...Welcome to blogland!!

Personally, I feel the same way as you...I do not attach a high value to monogomy and would not be happy for my partner to feel that way...this coming from the female side. I don't think we are built that way!! So there is no guilt from my side, similarly, if the person you are with or meet with has an attachment to someone else, that is up to their personal convictions as to whether they will feel any guilt. As you say they are an adult and responsible for their own actions. A life without sex....now to me if I was forced to live that way....why does the person who does not want the sex feel guilt? You can look at it in the reverse that way.

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tannedfriend 81M
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6/10/2007 11:50 am

 I prefer monogamy but some situations need to be worked around. It took serious soul searching to work thru and past guilt. We all have to make our own decisions. Good luck with your life!


SKM91 58M
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6/11/2007 6:15 pm

 Hi There

I do not feel any guilt related to extra-marital affairs. My wife's sex drive and openness is no where near mine so I "make-up" for the missing. Just have to be discrete and smart about it all.


rm_redrover404 57M

6/13/2007 5:35 am

 well for me i haven't done it yet but i'm in the same circumstance as you are. no sex at home for over a year and i'm ready to stray a little. as for guilt i'll tell you after lol


danaman4u 70M
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6/17/2007 1:58 pm
You could have asked a couple dozen different questions with your first post, but you chose one about guilt. I could be wrong, but I would guess you asked about it because you do feel at least a little guilty. Either that or you feel somewhat guilty about not feeling guilty (which is almost the same thing).

I'm married and my wife doesn't know (and wouldn't approve that) I'm on this site. I haven't made a connection, but do feel a little guilty. I'm careful to be discreet with my wife but very honest with a potential lover. Still, although I have reasonable reasons for trying to connect, I do question myself often.

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