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Blogs > rm_Quixy101 > Gravity

Teasing or Taunting  

rm_Quixy101 71M
2827 posts
8/20/2013 10:29 am
Teasing or Taunting

I read a profile the other day...it was MOST inviting...I do mean M-O-S-T...problem was I have already met this woman. And I KNOW that the invite is just bullshit...she makes it sound like all are welcome...and I do mean ALL! I even went out with her once...four years ago...and she was less than impressed (as was ...which happens...and I have no problem with that...so I say to myself, Self, perhaps she has had an epiphany...it could be that she has changed her mind, attitude, standards, needs, wants, etc. You could always try and contact her again...after all it was only one date, one kiss...perhaps second time is the charm...hmmmmm....

Its not that I'm chicken...its not that I don't want to, cause believe me I REALLY would like to...but there is this nagging voice in the back of my head that keeps saying..."Hey! Been there, done that, got rejected! Remember how that felt??? Wanna feel like that again???" So I hesitate...

So dear readers what do you think??

When a person changes his/her profile dramatically is it possible that they can actually change their ways? Does a Leopard change its spots when it has a complete change of mind? I don't know...

Paralysis grips me...I would love to be with her...but I've had quite enough rejection thank you...enough to last more than a life time...so I sit and wonder...

I crave guidance...

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
8/20/2013 1:28 pm

 Good question! What has really changed since you last meet this person. First off the alarm bells should be ringing in your ear from the last time you meet her. If she didn't want you then she surely will not want you now.. Good luck for anyone who does meet her because people do not change that much! hugs V
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rm_Quixy101 replies on 8/23/2013 6:33 am:
As always...sage advice...thanks.

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/20/2013 10:34 am

 Stay away! What has changed since except for the passage of time?


rm_Quixy101 replies on 8/20/2013 10:35 am:
Nothing has changed...likely you give good advice...

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