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Yet another BDSM thought
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Yet another BDSM thought The other day I was invited to a small party where some activities would be taking place. Not knowing these people very well made me wonder if I should go. But being open and trying to be understanding I went, promising myself that if I got grossed out I would come home. I explained to my hostess that my tolerance for this kind of stuff is pretty low, but I would try to take part. At first it was tame...a few handcuffs and such. Some light bondage and some funny situations. I must admit if that was the extent I could actually like this kind of fun once in a while. But as the evening wore on it got much more intense. This is not a picture from the party as no one had a camera (at least that I saw)but it is typical of what happened as the party got going.  A woman volunteered for this and I even participated in helping restrain her. But I got queasy and asked her at one point if she wanted me to let her go. She smiled and said "no". But as it got more and more intense I felt obligated to actually release her. She thanked me quietly later, but the whole atmosphere of the party changed. I was reprimanded by my hostess (privately, fortunate for me) and scorned by the majority of the guests. I couldn't help it...it just turned my stomach that a person would treat another person this way. The lady was in obvious discomfort if not pain, and I could bear to let that happen. I removed myself from the mainstream of the party and sat quietly in the "safe" room, alone. I was joined later by the lady I had freed and she quietly and secretly thanked me for releasing her. She said her husband really gets off on this stuff and she was relieved I had done what I did. She apologized for making me a bit of an outcast but assured me she did appreciate it. I actually was just about to leave when she came and found me. We talked for about half an hour alone together in the room while the rest played. I found and still find it incredibly interesting when a woman who is nigh on naked sits beside me to talk calmly and softly like we were at a normal dinner party, fully clothed. I still must be pretty naive as it always strikes me as odd yet cool that two adults who really don't know each other can be both half, or in her case, almost all naked and yet converse as if there was nothing strange or different about it. Anyway...she and I continued to talk and I suppose arouse each other because about ten minutes further into the conversation she noted that I was rather "excited". She brought it to my attention, which of course I already knew, and gently stroked me through the material of my shorts. I asked her if she was just being nice to me because A)no one else was and  because i had released her from her confinement. She smiled and said "yes, maybe a little. But also because I am turned on by how gentle and nice you are." Her smile at this point, with her hand on my swelling cock, was so captivating that, well, one thing led to another...When the hostess found us later on she was a bit surprised but shrugged her shoulders and said "whatever floats your boat, I guess." She left us to finish our intimacy and returned to the party. We carried on for quite some time until her husband came to find her. He asked her if she was ready to go and she assured him she would be along in a few minutes. She then kissed me and thanked me for a wonderful night and left. I let her go and then redressed and went home myself. In the end I have to say the party was a success but not in the way the party planners had envisioned. I doubt I will be invited to any more in the future, but I am quite pleased with the outcome. The next day the hostess called me and asked if I was ok. We talked for awhile about what had happened and she said she had not been surprised when I actually went against the party spirit. But she was glad that the two of us had found each other and had fun anyway. Did I mention that she is a very Nice lady, the hostess? Well it turns out she really is. I suppose I should be more careful about sticking my nose into things I feel quasi negative about...but in the end it really did turn out pretty good.
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Great post!  You touched on allot of subjects within the realm of D/s and bdsm. I especially liked the fact that you pointed out, in this particular couples instance, that the husband was more 'into' it than the wife and that she went along with things inorder to please him but it was not really her thing. Again great post and thank-you for sharing.
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