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Just the Way You Feel
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Just the Way You Feel Today is another beautiful fall day in the Great White North. These days are so precious its a shame one has to work. But work we must, so we can afford the good life.  I was musing this morning about my time on here and the highs and lows. Yesterday I wrote about the difficulty in meeting people close to home versus those further away. I have to admit that of the hundred or so people I have met from this site the majority have been within an hour or two of home. But the success rate has been much much much lower than those from further away. Actually of the thirty or so women I have gone to meet or had come here only four or five have turned out to be bad at worst or non productive at least. The others have been fantastic! So that kind of positive percentage still baffles me. But then maybe it shouldn't. I mean if you invest all the time and energy and money into flying across the continent to meet someone you would expect that the vast majority of those trips would turn out nice, wouldn't you? I mean if someone travels all that way and they are halfways nice then you would think the resulting get together would be pretty positive. And I don't mean just from a sexual point of view. In fact one of the best visits I've had didn't even include sex. The second time I went to see her it was ALL sex...lol. But the first time, not at all. So you can't just rate meetings by sexual encounters. I know and realize that close live bys will have more potential problems. Just because the frequency is possible. And a bad meeting can result in awkward "bump intos" down the road. But I think that's really an excuse as opposed to a reason. In any event one cannot swell on that or it would drive you crazy. Rather dwell on the very positive meetings either here or away and leave it at that. Today I am in a very aroused state...or so it seems. My thoughts are mostly positive and somewhat alluring. The sound a women in the office walking to this station or that even catches my attention. There is something almost musical about the click of high heels on the floor that arouses me. And of course that doesn't hurt when it is a beautiful woman walking by my office. I decided I had to get out of the office for coffee break this morning so I walked across the street to the College next door. Its a techinacl or community college, so the number of women there is diminished slightly from the University down the street. Should be safer, right? Nuh uh!! Lol. College girls(women) in all sorts of attire milling about the cafeteria and lounge...sigh. I know I'm in a pretty sexual mood when a 20 year old in sweats turns me on... . Mind you that was also predicated by the very lovely professor dressed in a mid thigh skirt and open blouse who smiled at me as she gathered her coffee from Tims. Sigh...today would be a bad day for me to start anything relationship wise. My eyes would be totally blinded by the form and not the substance.Talking to other men I know I am not alone in this type of feeling. There are days when we'd be better served just staying at home in bed...EVERYTHING and I do mean EVERYTHING turns us on! Whew...dangerous! Lol.  And there I am, sitting alone at a table for two, sipping on my chocolate milk and munching my donut when this lovely young woman comes and asks if she can join me. She is likely in her early twenties, she has a clip board, glasses and is dressed conservatively except for the top three buttons of her shirt being open and her ample chest pushing hard against the opneing thus created. She explains she is doing a survey for one of her courses and asks if I would like to be part of her study. I smile and say sure. She proceeds to ask me questions regarding my reasoning for coming to the College for coffee break. She goes through a number of questions which allude to the setting, the choices for coffee/snacks, the scenery, etc. She asks my age and my line of work and the<b> proximity </font></b>to the College of my workplace. Then she asks about my marital status, number of , ages, etc. Quite the demographic input here. Finally she asks the frequency of my coming here and the one strong reason why. I tell her that I work in this area a couple of times a month and this is the closest place away from work that has amenities. She smiles and asks if there might be another reason? I laugh and say that I don't mind the scenery as well! She puts her clip board down and we talk for several minutes about my answer. She is in a social psychology class and is fascinated by my response. I explain that its nice when a guy my age can unobtrusively sit amongst young people and enjoy their energy and enthusiasm. Plus, I admit, it is great to look at the women. She smiles and says that that isn't part of her survey but wonders if I would be adverse to her including that comment in her report. She thinks that there are a great number of buisness people (men and women) who frequent the college for just that purpose. She tells me of a woman who she recently interviewed who came for the same reason. I chuckled and said if I really wanted to oggle the girls I would walk the extra four block to the University. She frowns and says that while there may be less women at the college she considers them to be of a higher quality than some of the bimbos form the other place. I laugh out loud at this and assure her that I see no bias in her response. She smiles and turns a bit red and admits she can see my point. Her maturity entrigues me and I ask her if she would tell me her age. She pauses and looks around and then admits to be only 21. I tell her she is obviously a much more mature 21 than I would find at the other place...she beams at this remark and then asks me if I have ever dated someone so much younger than myself. I am a bit surprised and ask her if that is a request? She blushes full bore this time and tries to stammer out an apology. I assure her I am not offended and tell her that as a rule I would not date anyone so young. The gap is just too great, as well as other problems. She is a bit taken aback and asks me what I mean by "other" problems. I explain that physically I am not much of a specimen and that my ability to perform on other levels would be definately diminished from what she would find normal. She frowns and says that not everything good is about sex. I laugh and say that I hadn't really meant that, rather my ability to stay up late and take long walks or engage in sporting events...again she blushes quite fully, but I also assure her that she is correct about things like stamina etc. She is uncomfortable now, more at her own reaction than anything I have said, but tries to regain her composure and continue our talk. She says that I engage her mind and that she thinks I am unique in that my mind doesn't immediately go to sex when talking with her. I thank her for being astute and smile a truely fatherly smile. She relaxes and asks me if I might be interested in continuing this discussion one day? I say I would like that very much and we exchange and names. Hers is Cheryl and she is so forthright and cute that I know immediately I need to speak with her again. She leaves and promises to get ahold of me. Ahhh the moral dilemma...she is 21 for goodness sake! What if her current innocent conversation turns the way it might?? I think that would be bad for both of us...but I am not a coward, nor do I deny the last 15 minutes have been among the most pleasant in my last week...sigh...what ever shall I do? |
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Cheryl? Tims? 21 with a clipboard? Tech College in my area? Hmmm. I think I can handle that. Now what is her phone number?
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Quixy, Quixy, Quixy  She is 21 for gawd sake. She is an adult. She does know what she wants. It is a shame you don't. Does blood course through your veins? Geeeees! Seems you need to read: Women Complex then: Hand in Hand Come visit openagenda: provocative thought, adult discussions, sexy pics & giggles. Is This How Friday The GET IT ON Solution MASSAGE exploring partners SEDUCTION Love What is it Relationship Rules Trust and other Issues Essence Be In Tune Does Size Matter The Facts Hand in Hand
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