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Losing some sympathy  

rm_cyberseeker4 69M
25 posts
2/27/2008 1:48 am
Losing some sympathy


Ever since I've been a member if the site I've always had a lot of sympathy for girls in the room when they have been the subject of any form of abuse, I've usually tried my best to do my bit to help them out, to try and prevent it happening or try to nip it in the bud as soon as possible. But, after last night my sympathy has been reduced yet further. I witnessed an oaf insult, swear at, demand cams, etc and generally being obnoxious towards 2 women. This person has done this time and time again in several rooms, he has been told by so many people to stop it, he has been placed in the iggy box by lots of people and indeed been banned from rooms I believe. And yet he still does it. So once again last night he was at it again, and guess what, yep the girls told him to behave, others were getting annoyed with him, but no he kept it up.....until, yep he reached the desired effect and basically became the centre of attention. Then he poured on a little honey and sure enough the 2 girls forgave him . I've seen this happen time and time again, and 8 times out of 10 with a bit of sweet talk and creeping the girls forgive and forget.
OK so the guy knows how to work a room, but from now on I don't want to be around when any woman complains about getting abused and complains about the way they get treated. I cannot for the life of me see why people like this are given even a 2nd chance let alone a 3rd, 4th, 5th ad nauseum.
Why do you girls do it? Do you enjoy being told to 'fuck off'?? Do you enjoy people demanding to see your bodies on cam even if you either are not in the mood or it's not possible at that time? Are you willing to forgive anyone just because they go on cam and 'perform' on a regular basis?
I of course know that an awful lot of women would not find this behaviour in any way acceptable, but those that do baffle me, and yet it's usually those that complain loudest and longest??
Anyway small rant over, but if any of you can tell me why this happens I'd really like to know.
Maybe it's me thats doing it wrong by being polite and cheerful as much as possible, by not being rude, ignorant or foul mouthed? Perhaps it's time I started coming into rooms drunk (or worse, possibly drugged up to the eyeballs)? I dunno lol

Nah no chance, I'll just stay me, boring no doubt, but hey it seems to work for me lolol

CyberCircle It's where I'm at


rm_missy200664 59F
188 posts
7/29/2008 4:52 am

If you could see my iggy list you would know that I dont put up with shite.

Ok theres one or two guys who get a mile instead of an inch but then they are getting rarer

Think as Im getting older and hopefully wiser I put up with less shite and I cam less and less. And anyone gives me shite when the cam is on spoils it for everyone cos the cam goes off

[MISSY


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