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Blogs > blkdcklvr > Black Dick Lover!!!!!

How long is too long???  

blkdcklvr 59F
339 posts
9/12/2016 4:24 pm
How long is too long???
A young girl that works for me, had this open discussion this weekend and I thought what a better place for this discussion ....... than Senior Sizzle Land!!

She is in her late 20's and he is well into his 50's. They have been messing around for about 2 years. They are not in a relationship, just strictly a sex relationship. Sometimes she can feel that he wants a little more but she basically just pushes all efforts away.

Her question / point of heated discussion in the office: He has issues with ED.

She doesn't judge him to his face and tries to make the situation as comfortable as possible when he deflates, joking about him needing to eat healthier. He works out all the time, has the body of a God but that "pecker" just won't do. Oral is always their go to. So anyways these last couple of rounds of sex he gives her oral as always and she returns the favor.

HERE IS HER ISSUE....The length of time spent sucking is becoming the issue. The question is how long is too long to be sucking or how can you tell a man that it's getting redundant? He does not cum on the regular whether vaginal or oral so she feels like she is just down there wasting time!!!

How do you tell a man that if you "have" to stay down there for 20-30 plus minutes because that what it takes for you and sometime that you still do not get off.... that she is just done with it all.





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summertimeb2014 35F

9/5/2019 7:47 am

 I'm done sucking cock after about 10 minutes. At that point I'm just bored or need some attention on me.


StrongBlakDick4U 43M
263 posts
10/11/2016 10:06 am

 I don't understand why it would be hard for a woman to tell a man that she is NOT being pleased sexually? Why would she feel the need to pretend? However, to answer the specific question that was asked, "how long is to long?" It is to long when THE PERSON PERFORMING THE ACT IS NO LONGER ENJOYING what he or she is doing.


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