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WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT?  

blkdcklvr 59F
339 posts
8/24/2016 8:12 am
WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT?

It was brought to my attention this week that some people on Senior Sizzle are of the mindset that you can't meet and make great friends since this is a SEX SITE and then if by some miracle you do become friends...never, evvvvvvvva, evvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvva mention the L word.....LOVE!

I had to think about this for a bit since I have some GREAT and AWESOME friends that I met here on Senior Sizzle..both male and female. I express my LOVE for them every time that I speak with them or spend time with them.

I had to explain to these people that there are different types or levels of love. So we had a very lengthy conversation about LOVE and all its glory and levels.

There is the EROTIC LOVE or the feelings one gets when they see someone. They are attracted to their looks or their body. This is driven by sexual passion and desire. This is when you get the sexual feelings. Because the pull of this LOVE is so strong it leads to impulsive acts and many broken hearts.

Next we have the AFFECTIONATE LOVE or the friendship love. This is the LOVE that involves the mind. This is where you are best friends and you are not really sexually attracted to that other person. But there is loyalty or a sense of team pride. Maybe a better description is...the friend zone love!! LMAO

Then we get to the PLAYFUL LOVE. This is the LOVE that make your heart flutter, the flirting, the teasing and the first steps of falling in LOVE. This level is very important but often lost part of a long term relationship...be it friendship or romantic or marriage.

The UGLY level is the OBSESSIVE LOVE. This is when you MUST have someone in your life...poor self-esteem and this is where the GREEN MONSTER of JEALOUSY enters into the relationship. STAY AWAY FROM THIS LEVEL AT ALL COST.

Last but certainly not least is the ENDURING LOVE. This is a LOVE that has ages, developed and matured over a period of time. You have a harmony and understanding because you have formed this over a period of time. This is the LOVE that is hardest to find.

So you can see.....you can find LOVE on Senior Sizzle…it is just what level are you looking to obtain. The biggest issue is people spend so much time and energy trying to find LOVE...but never take the time to learn or maintain that LOVE.

I LOVE all of you.....it is just at what level if that LOVE???







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