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Liar, Liar...pants on fire!!!
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Liar, Liar...pants on fire!!! Lie ~To lie is to hold something which one knows is not the whole truth to be the whole truth, intentionally. ~False statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood. ~Something intended or serving to convey a false impression; imposture. ~An inaccurate or false statement. ~The charge or accusation of lying. ~To speak falsely or utter untruth knowingly, as with intent to deceive. ~To express what is false; convey a false impression. My inbox has been full lately of ladies that are so upset over being lied to by someone they have met on Senior Sizzle. {It's funny that all of my real life friends put me in the role of advice giver also!!} First and foremost...it is a sex site....folks are going to lie. It is really that simple. But some of these people have been "playing" or formed "friendships" with folks from Senior Sizzle going on 8, 9 or 10 or more years...so they expect more truths than lies from these people that they have met here on Senior Sizzle because they have crossed that line from Senior Sizzle online to Friends in reality. The root to all of this is ...folks are still going to lie. It doesn't matter the reason or the occasion. Even if in the profile and first email....they say...I am married and I have and I am not leaving that situation.....ever. You have accepted this from day 1....so you feel like you should not be lied to.....they will still lie to you. So I am going to try to help some of y'all out...... They don't want to hurt your feelings: They are sugarcoating or avoiding a volatile subject. At worst, it's a straight up lie to avoid drama and waterworks. Weak? Cowardly? Sure, but men live in the mindset of wins and losses, victories and defeats. What's the upside to being honest if it simply leads to a more difficult life with no perceived upside. They don't want the drama: If not telling the truth is harmless enough and being honest will just cause drama, heartache and grief for both parties, why would a man want to do it? I'm not advocating the behavior and I hold honesty as a high virtue for myself, but part of looking at this requires us to be honest about human nature: Humans (men and women) want to make life easier for ourselves, not harder. No perceived upside: If you want the truth and honesty, find a way to reward that behavior, not punish it by putting him through hell. A Desire For Sex Is Why Men Lie: Most men realize that simply saying all he wants is sex is not always the most effective approach to getting it. It may work sometimes, but typically it will work against him. This is why men lie to get that ass. Sex can be a powerful drug, and as long as there are men who want it bad enough, then this will always be one of the reasons why men lie. None of the reasons above are trying to validate why men lie. If your woman can't handle the truth, then understand "truth" is not the issue, but her inability to handle it is. If you have to lie for sex, then maybe you need to fall back from it. I'm not promoting your pursuit of it, but trust there are enough women who you can get sex from without all the unnecessary lies. Men, understand you have to do better. Women, understand the reasons above and eliminate contributing to the temptation of lies in the ways that you can. Let us all create an environment where people can be open and honest and put an end to the unnecessary madness. |
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8/21/2016 8:25 am |
I agree with a lot of what you said. I always try to tell the truth. upfront I say I am married, not wanting to change that. interested in women and some t gurls. once in a while young men as a change. enjoy having friends here to talk to, expect nothing in return. if a connection happens, so be it. but here to enjoy the edge of life I cant live full time. wish all were truthful always, not just teasing as a lot do. only thing I've ever lied about is my name to protect my loved ones.
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Can't post; currently stopping, dropping, and rolling...heh
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Great post. I wish liars pants catch on fire too.
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I realize that the focus of your research is about men from this site telling lies. From what I have heard from others...that is a fact. Let me add: couples, and WOMEN from this site lie too. People period, from this site lie. Just like people (period) lie out in the real world. Get use to it or do what I do...find some honest people and befriend them. I can't stomach being lied to, especially to my face. However, I have gotten better at leaving liars and their lies right where they stand as I walk away to go enjoy life and some good fuckin. Aint nobody got time to waste on a liar and their lies and why they lied. At least, I dont habe time for that. Fuck more, focus on negative energy less. Thats how I do it.
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