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I will not CHASE!!  

blkdcklvr 59F
339 posts
4/1/2012 9:27 am
I will not CHASE!!


In the past week, several things have been brought to my attention, some good and as is always the case, some bad. It has to do with women “chasing” men. This is just something that I was not brought up to believe in nor will I do.

Several men put on their profiles, “NOT INTO GAMES”. So you exchange emails with them and give them alternate ways to contact you not on Senior Sizzle. You never hear from them on the alternate way, then you get a nasty email saying.....I knew that you were not real and that you wanted to play games. REALLY??? I have either given you my YAHOO IM or my number and yet I am the one that wants to play games.

Right now, the only game I interested in is KENTUCKY vs. KANSAS, with the WILDCATS coming out on top!! #BIGBLUENATION!!


No well-trained, self-respecting Southern woman would call a man up, much less call him and ask him for three dates in a week. Never.

Perhaps others wouldn't either, but I am most confident about the ways of Southern women since that is what I am and always will be.
It would be most unusual for a typical Southern woman to call up and ask for a date, period.

In complete disclosure, I have, on rare occasion, called a guy when I needed an for an event, but I can count on one hand the times I have done that.

Why, should there ever come a time, Lord forbid, that I have to ask a man to take me out on a date, I'll just pack it all in. If a man isn't interested enough in me to ask me out first, then I'm not interested in him.

We (Southern women) practice pragmatic flirtation. If we are skilled at what we do and how we beguile, the guy will think of asking us out on his own. Also, this kind of practiced art takes patience. Men can be slow sometimes in figuring it out. But as Shakespeare opined, "much rain wears marble."
I've never considered myself an overly patient person. I want to lose any necessary weight in a couple of days and I abhor waiting in long lines. But this I have come to know: I am more patient than I am brazen.

I'll just wait for the guy to call.




Come join me and have fun WhiteWomenWhoCraveBlackMen or read my "Confessions" here blkdcklvr


BBC4lilwhitetxan 48M

2/12/2013 5:09 pm

Senior Sizzle has a nasty little way of dropping emails with contact info. I have had several situations where women send their number and I din't get the text or email....This seems to happen especially if a guy is standard.


BBC4BBcouple 49M/45F
96 posts
11/8/2012 9:34 pm

I never chase....I let hubby do that for me!! Even in the adult theater, he has to make the contact!!

Black Women ONLY Please !!!!


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