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Blogs > wordsofhoney > A New Adventure

does it really matter  

wordsofhoney 55F
127 posts
1/24/2009 6:37 am

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2/16/2009 10:14 am
does it really matter
so sometimes I want hot nasty sex and other times I want soft and gentle - sometimes I want to swallow and sometimes I don't - does it really matter to the guy or is that if they just get off it's all good?
doesn't matter I just want to get off
I prefer honesty
I wanna fuck like a porn star each and every time
I wanna make love to the person I'm with


horny196364 60M

1/24/2009 6:49 am

 love to chat with you sometime


rm_joebadness55 68M

1/24/2009 6:53 am

 It depends on weather or not its a 1 time fling in which the passion is so intense you have no alternative but to be agressive and a little more uninhibited than usual ,or an affair to which you are getting to know your partner and want to cater especially to her desires to keep it sensual and long term. I'm a little disappointed if its a fling and she will not allow me to be nasty or she has other inhibitions.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
1/24/2009 7:00 am

 I choose the “prefer honesty” option because several of them apply. If you want hot nasty sex ‒ let’s do it. Soft and gentle today ‒ great! Initially, you have to tell me which, but with time I’ll be able to just sense it. Maybe today you want swallow, maybe you don’t. That’s fine. Variety is good. Fuck like a porn star or making love are good options too.

Point is ‒ speak up! Now reason to be shy.

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rm_allysia0008 39F

1/24/2009 7:04 am

 hi


babykaren17 40F

1/24/2009 7:17 am

 hi


rm_icah14 40F
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1/24/2009 7:18 am

 hello


SexualDesirz 51F
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1/24/2009 7:52 am

 But.. if she doesn't hardly know you.. then wouldn't she be MORE inhibited... not less? "I'm a little disappointed if its a fling and she will not allow me to be nasty or she has other inhibitions.

I don't know your definition of "nasty" but that could be used in a very broad sense of the word... What might be mild sex to you, cuz be painful and degreading sex to her..
Key is communication.. but if all you are doing is ripping off each other's clothes.. doubt much dialogue is going on....
I'm not a fan of "rough" sex... maybe wild sex...something that's not painful in the least and I know the person well.
Otherwise might be dangerous & most unpleasant for the girl.. I guess it doesn't matter, ad the OP is asking the guys..


bigbob41686 69M
3 posts
1/24/2009 5:57 pm

 Words hell....just let me know what you are felling like doing...its all good at times....


Shifgrethor 68M
588 posts
1/25/2009 12:43 pm

 Honesty works best because how else can the other person know what you want, especially if what you want can change so much. Lovemaking is great, but sometimes it is also fun to just enjoy the animal lust of the physical act.


puzzyhoundah 59M
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1/28/2009 1:49 pm

 Honesty first... But I would like both her and me to get off. And I don't mind if she spits or swallows, but there is one thing that I just have to complain about: When I go clam-diving off the Coast of Gitchee-Cootchie, if I give her a tsunami-gasm while I'm pearl-polishing down there, I want a kiss afterward! THAT'S RIGHT! A big, wet, sloppy, cooter-juicy, passionate kiss for wearing you ladies like a SCUBA regulator and not damaging your lovely pink coral! Now, if before we have that sloppy kiss, you wanna have a serving of alfredo sauce to take the edge off the clam taste? That can be whipped up in a jizzy jiffy!


legend200673 48M
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2/10/2009 6:36 am

 Hey,
I feel its all good as long as each person understands where the other one is coming from. Respect and honesty is important and if both people understand its great no matter what happens. The worst thing is hurt feelings over something thats suppose to be fun. It is hard to find what you want but talking about it and keeping things open helps. I seek that righ open minded person and its really hard to find that in Augusta.


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