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I"m not RACIST, just...careful.  

NSAFunnseeker 44M
5 posts
9/18/2009 8:25 am

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I"m not RACIST, just...careful.


I hate when people say "I'm not racist." When they add to it "I have black friends." (or whatever other race), my spider senses go haywire.

Just because I have a gay friend does not mean that I'm not homophobic. Just because I work with an Iranian and willingly converse with them does not mean that I'm not racist against Middle Easterners or Indians. Just because I think white women are FUCKING CRAZY does not mean that I hate all of them. Just because black women are trifling and cry and whine about spilled milk and water does not mean that I won't<b> fuck </font></b>their brains out. (These are all examples, folks.) In other words, none of this proves that you are or are NOT racist.

What does, you ask? Would a black guy, say Carlton from Fresh Prince, nice, a gentleman, always looks sharp, always respectful, anything but your stereotypical black guy, wanted to date or, dare I say it?, marry your and asked you for your permission for either. Is he good enough? Now, apply that to whatever "preference" you decide to not deal with (for whatever your sorry ass reason is). Is your negative preference good enough for your /? Your sister? Your brother? I dare say your spouse if you were 'forced' to allow someone else to satisfy them? Are they good enough? If not, guess what? You ARE racist, asshole.

Ok, so you're not racist, but you don't prefer black partners. Gotcha. Here's a simple fix: "I'm not into blacks. It's my preference." If you want to explain why and put me in the same box as every other thug-wanna-be, weed smokin', ebonics speaking negro out there, fine. Not every dark skinned brotha or sista is like that. They are far and few inbetween, mind you, particularly when it comes to dating, but not nonexistant.

For all of you who are offended by me using your 'type' or lifestyle as s point of reference, that's all they were: points of reference. Most whites and latinos/latinas have a problem with blacks, and think that saying "I'm not racist. I have black friends" is okay by us. That's like saying "I'm not racist...just careful." "WTF? STFU, kiss my ass and suck my dick!" is all I want to say in response.

Your thoughts?

luciegirl2 55F  
508 posts
9/18/2009 9:07 pm

hmmm, i think i understand what you are saying,but to me i personally take alot of things into consideration for all men. it doesnt matter if your black,white,mexican,hispanic,mixed races. if you are respectful and honest to me then that all that matters,really. there are ALOT of fine black gentlemen out there same with all other races.


NSAFunnseeker 44M
6 posts
9/26/2009 4:18 pm

Don't fret. This is only for those folks who use the line "I'm not racist. I have [black] friends." You are not racist when my dick can be inside of you or I'm good enough for your daughter...more the second one, though. Your preferences should not interfere with your daughter's or son's happiness.

Bottom line: just because you have ethnic friends does not mean you are NOT racist...it just means you have ethnic (or even white) friends.


gunner54h 77M/60F  
59 posts
12/11/2009 12:26 pm

A lot of people have preferences, some like Chevy's over Fords. (don't understand that)! I think it is the desire in the heart that makes one attractive or ugly. If a person is ugly on the inside, he is ugly all the way through. You want to hear of a prejudice,, try being a older guy like myself. Everyone wants a trim fit young man. Well, I used to be that, and still am on the inside, just not now on the outside.


NSAFunnseeker 44M
6 posts
12/11/2009 10:33 pm

Desires, preferences, it's all good. It's yours. My blog was only for those who are racist. If you use that like or agree with it (the red ones in the original blog), then you more than likely are racist.

This is a dating site, therefore:
AS A RULE OF THUMB I don't date black women,
AS A RULE OF THUMB I don't date straight acting men,
AS A RULE OF THUMB I am discrete,
AS A RULE OF THUMB, etc, etc, etc

These are my preferences. Mine are [obviously] less strict than others. Just because it is a preference does not mean that I WON'T do it. I just means I shy away from it for one reason or another. I'm not racist against black women, I just shy away from them. I have my reasons. I know I could be happy with the right one, but that's also true of any ethnic background. I have had my share of black lovers, and I'd love to have more. I'll fuck them, I'll date them, I'll even marry the right one. Her skin color makes no difference to me, only her heart.

So for me to say that I don't date black women because of my past experiences, that's racist. Why? Because I'm PREJUDGING people I've never met. However, for me to say that it's not my preference to date black women and NOT leave a [lame] excuse comes across as racist. Just look up "Racism in the Elevator" on YouTube.

And, once again, this is only for those who use friends and accomplices as proof of not being racist.

Again, plainly stated, if my black dick or black skin is not good enough for your not-black daughter (or son), then you ARE a racist.

Just think about it. Flip the roles if you have to. Ask a black friend of yours, even. Hell, any ethnicity, really. Just make sure that they date outside their own ethnicity (and preferably in, too).


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