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Blogs > rm_vfemme > navigating my way around AFF.

hint hint, WINK WINK, nudge nudge.  

rm_vfemme 39F
Ask me for a photo
10 posts
1/9/2007 6:08 pm

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4/17/2008 1:41 pm
hint hint, WINK WINK, nudge nudge.

how did the marketing team of Senior Sizzle get together and think to themselves "let`s invent this ridiculous cowardice way of letting our members express interest in each other" and then on top of that, they decide to call it a "wink". now that i`ve signed up for Senior Sizzle, i`ve gotten about 70-80 winks a day and i get about 30 messages a day. now which would i rather pick to respond to? the 70 or the 30? well let me keep you from guessing and tell you, EVERY single time, i`d rather respond to a message over a "wink"... even a copy&paste message is more appealing than wink! is this what<b> internet dating </font></b>is all about? pppppfffttt! spare me, please. actually, truth be told, i`ll spare MYSELF and be done with Senior Sizzle when my membership is up at the beginning of next month. honestly, i`m not cut out for the adventures of Senior Sizzle, unlesssss, someone amazing comes along & restores my faith in the power of meeting people online. hint hint, WINK WINK, nudge nudge.

1nicetry 53M
136 posts
1/9/2007 6:45 pm

 Unfortunately there are too many immature people who are wasting others time. If it is truth and honesty you seek you will find it. Just be patient and you will be rewarded. They say you will sort through all kinds of minerals until you find one true diamond. I wish you well in your endeavors.


rm_zzyzzx1 56M
Ask me for a photo

1/11/2007 9:11 pm

 Well, men far out number women on this site and for every 70-80 winks and 30 messages you get per day I would be willing to wager that there is few (no?) men who get that much interest - betcha not even close. I personally have made a few good connections on Senior Sizzle but that was after sending mucho emails and scads of winks. It takes some work here as a guy and I can only guess that you will not respond to all 30 of those messages you get in the first place ---- right?

Anyway, my point being - most men here log on - start communicating w/ the few or more connections they have developed, or start searching. Women log on and just wade through the responses - picking the needle out of the haystack that sparks an interest.

Just an opinion anyway, you could prove me wrong by errr....responding to the wink I sent you?

Ha - enjoy Senior Sizzle


rm_TrueWhiteGuy 41M
1 post
1/14/2007 2:59 am

 Unfortunately they don't really work that well on this site, but my guess would be that since the Friend Finder company owns so many personals sites that the wink was just easy to incorporate. On the sites where there are many, many fewer members a wink is a way for someone to show just enough interest that you might want to sign up for a membership and see what's going on Unfortunately yeah on here due to the incredible amount of people it gets a bit out of hand


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