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How Long Before You Meet?
How Long Before You Meet? |
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If its right, do it as soon as possible!
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7/10/2018 5:32 am |
If its right, do it as soon as possible!
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I think people on these sites drag it out so it doesn’t happen. I’m on here to meet people, and if close enough I will in person Nothing wrong with an online relationship, if that is what you are both looking for. You have to be honest from the get go.
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I think people on these sites drag it out so it doesn’t happen. I’m on here to meet people, and if close enough I will in person
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After a couple of long (1hour?), mutually entertaining conversations, I know, if I want to meet the person or not . It's not brain surgery. If I feel a good vibe from someone, and laughing and smiling, then I want to meet them as quickly as possible. Y waste each other's time? I'm equally confident face to face, as I am on the phone. If the other person is lacking that confidence, then they are probably not a match for me. Anyway.... this is what works for me... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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6/29/2018 12:05 am |
It all depends on the comfort level. If the connection is right, at leadt do a meet and greet and see how it goes. Why stretch out the time frame.
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one month should be ok.
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Sometimes within a week other times it could be longer. I like to chat on the phone with them usually a few times before meeting. LadyTeddieBear
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hot ty
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6/11/2018 4:04 am |
It depends on how ow quickly the other person wants to move. Sometime it can take a while to get schedules to line up, but no more than weeks.
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I usually don't expect to meet people from this site and over the years I've only met a handful. I am usually expecting the worst case scenario. Therefore I don't get my hopes up. That being said, the people that I have met from here have been pretty cool. For me it just takes a little more time. I'd rather spend a little more time getting to know someone here before meeting in person. Jim
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I too had found not only lovers, but great friends here. When I was a lot more active than I am now, I wrote this blog Unexpected Relationships on A F F.
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I think it depends on the person you are talking to.. do they seem to be upfront and honest... Personally I think you need to talk to them for a couple weeks to get an idea.
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I prefer to meet today [same day of contact] or tomorrow, for about a half hour. That should be really easy.
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Usually I prefer to meet that same week, so less than a week for me. As someone has said on here, if you're online looking to find someone, then you have the time to meet for a drink or coffee and see what develops.
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Generally speaking I don't go into a meet expecting a hook up. But, since this is a meeting/dating site with a more up front attitude regarding sex I am always hopeful for more than just a date. Subject to a few exceptions . . . IME, if you don’t get a local woman’s phone number within a couple days (a week max) of contact here you probably won’t end up meeting. If you don’t meet her within a week or so (2 weeks max) of getting her phone number you probably won’t end up meeting.
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I like to meet within a week or two just so we don't waste each other's time if there's no chemistry. Everything looks and sounds better online, face to face is the only way to gauge chemistry. Also, like you said, if they can't make a 45 minutes happy hour happen... they obviously can't make an entire evening happen.
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I find it interesting that only men have commented on the post. Does this mean that it takes women longer to make up their minds? It only takes a few messages to see if there is a chance of a meet. Then the quicker the better.
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I'd say, upwards of over a week, it's nice to exchange a few e-mails, and having a couple of phone conversations first, kind of get a feeling of that person.
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6/6/2018 9:49 am |
Depends on what your looking for....quick hook up then less than a week. Long term hook up maybe less than 2 weeks.
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6/6/2018 4:38 am |
A week or two feels best for me, however knowing that many have somewhat of a reluctance concerning comfort, safety, trust and other encumbrances, I enjoy meeting when the time is right and both as comfortable as two can be with a first meeting. I believe that relevant adult communication about mature topics does help bring about a more knowledgeable decision and hopefully a more enjoyable time.
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I like to meet within a week or two just so we don't waste each other's time if there's no chemistry. Everything looks and sounds better online, face to face is the only way to gauge chemistry. Also, like you said, if they can't make a 45 minutes happy hour happen... they obviously can't make an entire evening happen.
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Depends if the schedules coincide But mainly, on the basic thing : Mind atunemet,and attraction Cheers my lady - P
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I find it interesting that only men have commented on the post. Does this mean that it takes women longer to make up their minds? It only takes a few messages to see if there is a chance of a meet. Then the quicker the better. “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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6/6/2018 2:05 am |
I prefer to meet as soon as possible to see if he is compatible with me and I with him. If we hit it off, great. If not, we can go our way.
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