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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Just Trying to Be Nice  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
1/16/2012 4:33 pm

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10/21/2016 8:19 pm
Just Trying to Be Nice
I don't know about everyone on here, but I seriously feel bad that I can't reply to some emails. It's obvious the person who sent it read my profile or blog (or looked at my pics or video) and made an effort to write more than just "wanna fuck". But, from experience, I've found that even a "thanks, but I'm not interested" reply generally encourages additional emails, instead of accepting the fact that I am really not interested.

So.....I wrote an auto-reply with the intent of politely saying I"m not interested. I refrain from writing negative responses, even from the more, shall I say, suggestive email requests since I feel if the writer gets off writing things like that it's his/her/their prerogative. I can just ignore...and in most cases chuckle.

However, it seems some aren't very happy receiving my auto-reply. What do you prefer...not getting a reply from someone who is uninterested (you can't expect a response from all, can you?) or something like I've written?

Thanks for your interest. I do appreciate your positive response to what I've written, pics, video, etc. (I'd be lying if I didn't, or else why would I post them here.) However, as my profile states, I'm serious about the over 40, living nearby and not married criteria. If you don't fall into those categories or are someone I feel I wouldn't be compatible with after reading your profile or email, I will most likely not respond. Good luck and have fun.


Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
trucking0_13 61M

1/17/2012 6:23 am

 love to chat with you sometime


gentile_sadico 59M
1392 posts
1/16/2012 10:32 pm

 Your reply is a nice and thoughtful way to handle the issue.


peter0819 64M
70 posts
1/16/2012 9:44 pm
    Quoting peter0819:
    Besides, I don't have the problem of wrestling with whether to send an autoreply or not respond. Someone other than pretend women would have to email me first. Not whining...just sayin'
Ok, in retrospect perhaps I was whining.
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


packageman57 67M
1093 posts
1/16/2012 8:07 pm

 I think I would prefer a thank you but no thank you note rather than not getting any reply at all.....

Does this mean "no chance" with you? LOL


peter0819 64M
70 posts
1/16/2012 6:06 pm
    Quoting ronding120:
    i like it but dose it burn up your e mails
Sorry...but what does this mean???
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


peter0819 64M
70 posts
1/16/2012 5:55 pm

 Besides, I don't have the problem of wrestling with whether to send an autoreply or not respond. Someone other than pretend women would have to email me first. Not whining...just sayin'
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


tresennui replies on 1/16/2012 7:38 pm:
Not whining, but sounds like a man that needs his ego stroked....among other things.

peter0819 64M
70 posts
1/16/2012 5:52 pm

 I would definitely prefer the kind of 'autoreply' you've written. But then again, I am a masochist (in terms of exposing myself to rejection, not S & M and B & D, just in case anyone is trolling for a guy who likes to be bound and hurt and humiliate and told he's lower than crap...and loves it).
'Thought. Why does man kill? He kills for food...but not only food, frequently there must be a beverage.' - Woody Allen


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