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rm_loveslilies 57F
27092 posts
1/5/2012 11:03 am
this ~n~ that



During my break from blogland not much went on in my life except the couple of things I blogged about already.
I did want to tell you all that my visit with my nieces and nephew was awesome. They are no longer angry about us not seeing and talking to them since their Father's death, the eldest now knows that it was her Mom that kept us from them not us just blowing them off. This takes a huge worry off my shoulders, now they know they still have our love and support. They seem to be doing ok, though the new man in their Mom's life is.. how do I put it, um much stricter than my brother was with them. Some of the stuff they told us about concerns all of us however, we are just going to keep our eyes and ears open at this point. If we see or hear anything we know is against the law we are going to report them..

Another thing that happened was our of 15 years passed away the day after Christmas. We shall miss her dearly. She was an outside but still she was a great dog. She use to watch over my boys when they played outside when we lived in a not so great of neighborhoods. She actually ended up running off a couple of people who were up to no good with my boys.

Let me see is there anything else blog worthy ..
Not that I can remember.
Oh no Titty Thursday this week, I havent had the time or privacy to get it done. The just went back to school, man this holiday break felt as long as a summer break
Even though I will love having more time to myself now ,I will miss him. I enjoyed the having him around more..

have a great day.
much love {=}



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Then I Misunderstood The Question


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
1/5/2012 12:27 pm

Good to know that your neices & nephew now realise they have your support.
Sorry to hear about your dog. I'd be lost without mine.



lifebegins63 61M

1/5/2012 12:32 pm

A good dog is a fantastic thing and a loyal friend

regards


SweetLove1414 53F

1/5/2012 12:36 pm

Sorry to hear about your dog. That is sad and hard to lose a pet no matter what age they are when they go.

Titty Thurs...good to see you keeping the Titty Day alive and going~


Trya67 56M

1/5/2012 1:53 pm

Sounds like some good news . Followed by some good memories of a loved one ...


Phaedrus61616 63M

1/5/2012 1:57 pm

Isn't it amazing how quiet the house is when a kid leaves? I couldn't wait until my kid moved out until she was gone, then I missed having her and her friends around. Still miss it.

Get another dog.


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
1/5/2012 3:13 pm

I'm happy to hear the kids know you are still there for them. Sorry to hear about your dog...I know how much I miss mine...I hope everything else is going well

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


Bogie106 75M
15322 posts
1/5/2012 7:01 pm

Glad you got things worked out...always a great relief...sorry to hear about your dog...but glad you got your space back...enjoy...


rm_3x23 59M
1590 posts
1/5/2012 7:46 pm

Sometimes the friendship of a dog is better than that of a person, but usually less appreciated. May he/she rest in peace.

Good to hear the children are somewhat aware of the situation. It will take them a few years to truly understan all the circumstances.

Sorry, but that illegal shit just never impressed me. I simply put the fear of 3x23 into their ass. Sometimes it is a good thing to let people know that you can be the biggest asshole that they have ever meet. On the good side, no child that was ever any part of my life was ever afraid to tell me any concerns that they have ever had.

Again, I don't know the person that you speak of, but trust you instincts. Maybe he actually has their best intrests in mind. Then again, it may be something else. Sounds like Mom is scared and feeling lonely, so somebody has to watch out for her also.

Big job ahead dear lady. As always I'm here for any help that I can give.


hornyguyMN 43M
16352 posts
1/6/2012 7:14 am

Sorry to hear about the dog. It is never fun when a pet passes on.

I'm glad your visit with the Niece and Nephew went well. Stricter isn't necessarily a bad thing. But if there is anything illegal going on by all means report them.


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:06 am

    Quoting  :

We think along the same lines on this, being domineering usually just makes kids worse well the smarter ones at least.
We've had no snow to really speak of, dang it its winter at least we could have a lovely blanket of white instead of all this dreary brown and mud decor we have now..

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:08 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Good to know that your neices & nephew now realise they have your support.
    Sorry to hear about your dog. I'd be lost without mine.

I am SO glad they know it now, it helps them dearly to know it..
I miss the ole girl, we were the only females of this household now I am comletely out numbered

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:08 am

    Quoting lifebegins63:
    A good dog is a fantastic thing and a loyal friend

    regards
she was all of that and then some.

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Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:09 am

    Quoting SweetLove1414:
    Sorry to hear about your dog. That is sad and hard to lose a pet no matter what age they are when they go.

    Titty Thurs...good to see you keeping the Titty Day alive and going~


Sweetlove ltns
how could we ever forget about titties

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Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:11 am

    Quoting  :

thank you for your compassion, isn't funny how that is how it usually goes in life we loose something then gain something...

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:12 am

    Quoting Trya67:
    Sounds like some good news . Followed by some good memories of a loved one ...
its fantastic new, that dog has given all of my family alot of great memories thanks trya

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rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:14 am

    Quoting  :

They have no idea how much they need us and even more so in the future. No when are remaining animals pass we are done.

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:14 am

    Quoting Phaedrus61616:
    Isn't it amazing how quiet the house is when a kid leaves? I couldn't wait until my kid moved out until she was gone, then I missed having her and her friends around. Still miss it.

    Get another dog.
yep thats how it goes

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Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:16 am

    Quoting rm_travelguyoh:
    I'm happy to hear the kids know you are still there for them. Sorry to hear about your dog...I know how much I miss mine...I hope everything else is going well
I am doing ok with the other things..
loosing a dog can be very traumatic for some people.I am sorry you lost yours.
thanks for your kindness

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Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:17 am

    Quoting Bogie106:
    Glad you got things worked out...always a great relief...sorry to hear about your dog...but glad you got your space back...enjoy...
I feel much better about the kids now, now they know they can call us if needed..

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:21 am

    Quoting rm_3x23:
    Sometimes the friendship of a dog is better than that of a person, but usually less appreciated. May he/she rest in peace.

    Good to hear the children are somewhat aware of the situation. It will take them a few years to truly understan all the circumstances.

    Sorry, but that illegal shit just never impressed me. I simply put the fear of 3x23 into their ass. Sometimes it is a good thing to let people know that you can be the biggest asshole that they have ever meet. On the good side, no child that was ever any part of my life was ever afraid to tell me any concerns that they have ever had.

    Again, I don't know the person that you speak of, but trust you instincts. Maybe he actually has their best intrests in mind. Then again, it may be something else. Sounds like Mom is scared and feeling lonely, so somebody has to watch out for her also.

    Big job ahead dear lady. As always I'm here for any help that I can give.
no doubt it can be better and more staifying too
We have been over there before and my husband let his prescense be know ! The kids know they can always come to me and my brother, its always been that way, now any doubts they may of had sinc eof of this started is now gone because we told them as much..
The MOm is very messed up over what happened she just wont admit it.. we have told her we are here for her still as family but so far she continues to shut us out.. thanks for the offer I might need it oneday !

If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:23 am

    Quoting hornyguyMN:
    Sorry to hear about the dog. It is never fun when a pet passes on.

    I'm glad your visit with the Niece and Nephew went well. Stricter isn't necessarily a bad thing. But if there is anything illegal going on by all means report them.
In all honesty they need more structure than they got when he was alive and even more so after, you know boundaries make kids feel secure.. dont worry if we think it even sounds fishy we are making that call !

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Then I Misunderstood The Question


rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/6/2012 10:25 am

    Quoting  :

We have seen them interact together a few times seems fine, almost to fine if you know what I mean, she does need support just to bad she wont reach out to us but its complicated... we will miss her but you are right she lived a happy long life thanks Coastal

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