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Proximity Does Not Make You Attractive  

Groooooooooooovy 59F
145 posts
3/23/2011 7:14 pm

Last Read:
8/12/2012 10:04 am

Proximity Does Not Make You Attractive


If I've said it once, I've said it a bazillion times.

So, I get an IM tonight. After a brief greeting, I am told "I want to meet you."

I asked a very natural and reasonable question...."why?"

I got a predictable answer; "Because you are nearby." Oh, he started spouting off a couple of nonsensical reasons after that, none of which had any basis in reality (honestly, you just started chatting with me, how do you know that I am kinky?).

Don't get me wrong<b>...proximity </font></b>is high on my list of desirable attributes too. There are things that are higher and I don't care if you live within walking distance, I'm not meeting you just because you live nearby.

Meeting you isn't anything that even comes under consideration for quite some time.

twoforone100 53M/49F  
1169 posts
3/26/2011 5:12 pm

But you are close.....that's all he sees....


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