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An open letter to R  

rattailgirl 57F  
761 posts
10/11/2010 8:12 pm

Last Read:
1/21/2018 6:55 pm

An open letter to R


I'm still a little angry over the ending of my last "relationship". Maybe this will help things some--I've been told it might. If not, it'll certainly be fun to write anyways!!

R--
If I knew I wouldn't have to listen to everybody's crap, I'd call you out here and now, by your full name. But I'm not going to. What I do want people to know is what a cheating, lying scumbag you are. Other than telling me you were, in fact, fucking other people when we first starting seeing each other, you really were never truthful about much of anything else after that point. I know you'd say the lying didn't really start until after you got back from Sturgis in August, when I got the partial truth out of you about that. But in reality, it started in February or April or whenever it was, that you told her she could go along. How and why I put up with all the behind my back crap, I don't know. It was one thing after another with you, including all the excuses about why you couldn't see me on one day or another. I guess you thought I was stupid, not calling you on any of it. But I can usually manage to put 2 and 2 together and come up with the right number. And I did. I'm not going into all the details here-- you should know them all. I wonder sometimes, did you celebrate all those holidays with her that you never did with me? I'm betting you did.

I know now that I gave you entirely too much of myself, too fast. I've always been prone to doing that. But you know what, this has been (by far) one of the easiest things to get over for me. No sooner did we exchange that final telling email(which you never answered, and I never expected you to), that I dumped all your contact info, your emails, your chats. I tore up all your pictures that I had and didn't feel a minute's remorse over it. And I haven't looked back since then. And no, you haven't "spoiled" me for anyone else. In fact, I'm more free now than I was before. Having my day off back in my possession is a great thing!

So tell me, did you get engaged before or after the rally? I'm betting it was after, probably down in Myrtle Beach. All it takes is that one scary incident to make you see certain things in a different light. How freaking romantic. Wonder if you were wearing the ring I gave you when you asked her .... Yep, damn nice of you to ask someone else to marry you while you were seeing me (and leading me blindly down the path).

Let's see, what else do I have to bitch about since this is my blog and I can use it to complain as I see fit .... hmmmm Oh yeah, maybe if you HADN'T lied, we could at least still be friends. But wait, you're full of shit and that just ain't gonna work. So hey, have a nice life and maybe try not to lie to your future wife nearly as much as you did to me.

Bite me

oh and one more time for good measure ---
FUCK YOU!

boy, do I feel better now..... LOL Thanks for the idea you-know-who-you-are I still didn't say everything I wanted to say, and I was still waaaayyy too polite, but I think I got my point across.

Lynn1812 54M
4928 posts
10/11/2010 9:24 pm

I've heard this story many times and I just want to know one thing...

How the hell do jackasses like that always manage to get the girl when decent honest guys like me cant even get a response to an e-mail?


rattailgirl 57F  
366 posts
10/12/2010 4:12 am

Guys like that are a lot like porn --- very very tempting on the outside, but full of crap and fluff on the inside, once you start watching. They promise one thing and do another. Kinda like Debbie Does Dallas ..... now, did she REALLY do all of Dallas ??? LOL nope .


rattailgirl 57F  
366 posts
10/12/2010 6:52 pm

Thankyouthankyouverymuch ......... Glad you like the view too. Just wait until you have the chance to get lost between them. Think you'll be able to find your way out ???


braker692 70M
29 posts
10/16/2010 2:28 pm

Love the view. Now for a side view shot.

braker692


rattailgirl 57F  
366 posts
10/16/2010 7:19 pm

Now Braker -- I keep telling you that you gotta come HERE to get that view, and more ;>


Akinete 61M/52F  
87 posts
10/21/2010 7:25 am

Sorry to read about the situation with the scumbag. Its a shame that some people just don't see a good thing when they have it. Hang in there!


adirondack77 61M
54 posts
1/27/2011 6:05 am

Just wandered into your blog and read this. There are a lot guys and gals that play like that. Sucks big time, kinda been there done that and got left standing there too. It's better that you publicly told him off and let him know how you feel, but he probably doesn't care, but to be able to vent like that brings a bit of closure so that you can move on and find someone that would treat you right.

Keep you head up, it does wonders for your posture!


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