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Asking for a friend  

Tennbroad 70F  
793 posts
5/17/2019 8:13 pm

Last Read:
6/4/2019 7:38 am

Asking for a friend


Lets play a game. You, my other family be the therapist and me the patient. Now I am a very curvy woman, some may say I am fat with a good attitude, some say I am short ,fat and sweet. When I<b> meet a man </font></b>I choose to drive myself to where we are meeting, if it is to dinner I try to be a pleasant dinner guest. I am an equal partner I will for dinner or let him for dinner if he so chooses. After a nice dinner and time is late some men have thoughts of cuddling after dinner but and let me say in caps BUT if it is not the desire of the lady or the man ( yes there are some shy men there) why is it hard to understand the word NO? Maybe it's too soon, or nerves are in the way or you just didn't click. But the word NO should be respected and not held against your date. I have been in this situation more times than I care to count. If I feel something is not right I going to politely excuse myself and leave but as I was going the door( this happened a couple of weeks ago) my date of the evening said something his breath. See I didn't listen to my inner voice, I should have declined the date but I felt it is time for me to enjoy life go and have fun.................safe fun. But I chose the wrong date. I had talked to him online for a few weeks, felt alright about it and went. This is why I drive myself. I never let my date pick up I funny way. He was mad, he said he had got a room and thought after dinner we would go there have a drink. I don't drink( sometimes I wish I did). Now doctors, if you are single and live alone why you to get a room, you live here or so you said. But why is No such a hard word to understand? I didn't hear what he said but he was mad should I have said something more? I just walked away got in my car and went home. I didn't cry I felt good about my decision and by the time I got home he had wrote me an ugly message, so ugly I had to block him. I love this web site the men, well most of the men are nice, they are picky but I have learned how to handle this. When I get my life back I will get back to writing steamy love stories but I your help. I advice. I wrong to be suspicious of all men? should I tone it down or do I to let inner voice run with it? Ok doctors the ball is in your court I help. You can now talk among yourself but don't take to long I will be 67 in 2 months............lol

superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
5/17/2019 9:31 pm

All first meets should be in public with each person driving themselves.
When scheduling a meeting, make it clear that sex may not happen the first time.
Always .... ALWAYS ..... listen to your inner voice!

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


irenepapi676 31F

5/17/2019 9:31 pm

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HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
5/17/2019 10:37 pm


Tennbroad 70F  
330 posts
5/17/2019 11:15 pm

Thank you family I knew you would give good advice


daveisbad2 68M
25 posts
5/18/2019 9:08 am

you should have peppered sprayed his ass and kicked him in the nuts!!! I am sure he knew better some dogs are just hard to train,


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