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What Men Think Of A Woman Making The First Move  

Tennbroad 70F  
793 posts
5/1/2015 10:35 pm

Last Read:
1/25/2017 1:53 pm

What Men Think Of A Woman Making The First Move


Here’s what men really think about women making the first move.

It Shows Confidence

Most men like confident women. When you take the initiative, the most likely outcome is that he’ll be turned on by your bold move. Even if he’s not into you, the worst that will happen is that he’ll say no.

It Makes Your Interest Obvious

Just like women can have secret crushes, so can men. If there’s a guy you’ve had your eye on, he might be into you, but is too shy to approach you. In cases like this, it’s in both of your best interest if you make the first move, but after you make your feelings known, that could change. It always pays to be honest.

It Makes Him Feel Attractive

Everybody likes to feel attractive. It can be flattering to have an attractive man approach you, so why shouldn’t it work the same way for him? When you make the first move, you’re letting him know that you find him to be desirable, which directly appeals to his masculinity.

You Have Healthy Self-Esteem

It’s often said that if you don’t like yourself, nobody else will like you. This can apply to dating as well. Men tend to be more attracted to women with a healthy self-esteem. The fact that you think enough of yourself to risk rejection by putting yourself out there can be a real turn-on to a man.

You Don’t Play Games

The majority of men don’t like women who want to play mind games. By approaching him first, you immediately let him know you’re not that kind of girl. You’re direct and you know what you want. You’re not interested in beating around the bush to get and keep his attention.

nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
5/1/2015 10:45 pm

Hmmmmmmm.......interesting as I'm usually the one that makes the first move....

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/1/2015 11:37 pm

I have no issue making the first move to show interest but a man needs to put in the work as well. I've noticed a lot of men in A*F*F leave a lot of the work to the ladies.

I don't open my legs to every man who steps up to my plate here. A man needs to show me he appreciates me & is worthy of us getting naughty. Most just want to fuck and fuck immediately. I just don't move that fast. Men will move on fast when they don't hear the panties hitting the floor at the first 'Hey' email sent.

I require a connection & chemistry along with intimate, intense & passionate. All of that can't be discerned with one email. Sport fucking leaves me feeling lonely & empty. I want more from a man.

Some get it and enjoy wooing a woman. Some can't be bothered.
I can't be concerned with people who aren't concerned with me.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
5/2/2015 1:50 pm

I have always been attracted to aggressive women. I especially love it when she makes the first move, it tells me she wants me and it's okay to make the second fourth and tenth moves afterwards

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


wanderer441000 63M
14 posts
5/5/2015 11:52 pm

for the most part I agree there are still some that don't like it, but most guy that turn a woman down after they make the first move are just not into the woman that made the move.


wanderer441000 63M
14 posts
5/5/2015 11:54 pm

I agree there should be balance. I think this is more about the first time


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