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Blogs > Tennbroad > This just ain't working

It's me again  

Tennbroad 70F  
795 posts
5/22/2013 11:53 pm

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5/29/2013 6:28 pm
It's me again

I have something to say and I hope I am wording this correctly. This is directed to married men. I have a lot of married men in my network. Most are just friends but the local ones are the ones I have to address. I know you are married and you chose to be on this site but all women married and single do not have access to a "play den" (that's what I call it) all the time. I know when my was in college I had all the time and space to have a good time but I couldn't get a man to come to my house and I think it was due to the location of my home. But you chose to play and you should be willing to pay for a room. Now I have paid for rooms many times and never thought anything about it. Some women will pay, some will go half and half and there are some women that would go ballistic if you even mentioned either of those. I just want the guys to know it's not easy playing alone when you are married so just remember you chose that so you ought to be willing to pay for a room or dinner just to talk. I think I have addressed this somewhere down the road but it keeps becoming an issue and I just don't know what to say any more. Ok family what do you think am I stepping out of line, should I shut the fuck and mind my own business? You know I still love you all so hit me up

rm_1HotBaadBoy 48M
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334 posts
5/23/2013 12:22 am

 I’m not married but what you’re saying sounds about right to me. If a guy travels, he should pay for a room. If she travels then she should pay. If they meet somewhere half-way, then they should split it 50/50 or some other type of fair arrangement. Anyone who has a problem with sharing costs isn’t worth meeting.
1HotBaadBoy


Tennbroad 70F  
330 posts
5/23/2013 6:23 am

 thank you my darling I had a friend call me and said he never thought about it like that he figured if the woman wanted him bad enough she would have a place or pay............................ might be why he has not scored on this site..................lol


wanderer441000 63M
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14 posts
5/28/2013 8:22 pm

 i'm not married, and it may be a bit old fashion but i'd want to pay. there may come a point where i'd slit if it was an on going thing. i think the only way i'd feel right letting the woman pay full is if it was my birthday or something like that, or if she realy wanted to and i was broke at the time


Tennbroad 70F  
330 posts
5/29/2013 6:28 pm

 I love you sweetie and thanks for your input


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