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Sex and marriage
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Sex and marriage I realize these should go ahnd in hand. But i also know sex is not everything. But once in a while would be nice. I know though it will not be happening for a long time. He is now working 2 jobs since i don't have a job. So i am give him credit for that. He is now stepping up to take care of his family instead of you better get a job, you have the degrees. That is not as easy with the economy and my medical. But part of me also says it is about time. I know that sound rude and very mean but there is more to that comment. We moved to KC because he had a job and in 6 month of being there he would be making 16.00 a hour. Well that was back in 2001 and since then he has never made that. So i got jobs off and on, went to school, worked while in school over half the time so we had the money. Now with my degrees and the economy that is another thing. He wants me to apply at Mc Donald's. or such food places, I refuse. I did that when I was 17. I do have degrees and i want a job in either of those fields. But on the other hand my medical is causing issues. So I have mentioned I should get disability. We have not talked into great detail about that because he is working the two jobs. Now the two jobs is only until October then he will be retiring from one because he will be there for 10 yrs and the retirement will be higher. The other job pays more and has better educational benefits for the . So to me it seems he is putting more effort into this marriage. so far only once did he make the comment about me getting a job. I did apply at WalMart again, but the last time they told me i am over qualified. I just want a job one i can work up to management. They should be happy I have experience and education to back it up. But no they think I need more pay. I just want a job. one so I am out of the house, two so if I want to leave i can because I have income coming in. Even disability I would be able to leave if I wanted to. I am not saying I want to but I am fed up with no sex and the comments. But i know we have been through hell and back. Then the mean the world to both of us. I just need some attention and I am talking more than sex. It seems now that I am out of school the friends I had is slowly going down. I have really close friends but friends to just hang with I don't have because their work schedule is conflicting with my schedule. We still talk regularly. But I miss going out having a drink and just talking. Or going out to concert or games just fun and relaxing. Some say I want a boyfriend, not exactly, but i don't want to feel sleazy either. just some fun and relaxing and in time yes sex. A girl has needs. someonespecial_68 Dawnadoll |
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I understand about the lack of attention as I am in the same boat here. It really is about more than just sex. Going out somewhere, spending time together on the couch watching TV together. When the sex does happen it would be nice for her not to treat it as a chore, or a duty.
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