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Blogs > herupakhered > whispers in twilight

my clubgear is purportedly a "representation of a woman"  

herupakhered 48T
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10/21/2006 9:17 pm

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10/30/2006 5:05 pm
my clubgear is purportedly a "representation of a woman"

I can't post photos of myself dressed and made up as I am when I go out to nightclubs. Apparently someone considers it drag, though I don't seem to hear much about that from anyone at the clubs, and people in chatrooms say it's just clubgear. This is, to say the least, rather annoying.

I understand the general need to keep gender confusion from happening, but my first impression when they told me this was "They can't be serious!" My first guess was that it was something about photoshopping, so I held up a sign that said, "This is not photoshopped. Do not delete." Then I called and was told it was the gender issue.

Well, I've been stocking up on clubgear and should be ready for more extreme looks soon anyway. They'll probably be along the lines of a picture of Dani Filth from Cradle of Filth I found on the net (I wanted to use it as my icon, but it seems to disappear shortly after I post it) and other more overtly monstrous affairs, so gender issues are less likely to occur with the photo reviewers. Mostly I've focused on the black scleral contacts but I dredged up that photo last night and I screamed to my empty apartment, "I have to do that!"

P.S.:

In case anyone's wondering, I'm not actually genderqueer or TV/CD or TS/TG. I'm just queer, bisexual or pansexual or pomosexual or whatever you want to call it. I've had someone dress me before and I know from that it's no particular turn-on or something I really get into from that. If I've got any genderqueer tendencies, they're toward neuter, not femininity or really even androgyny, and expressed by the appearance or desiring of the appearance of sexual immaturity vs. the extreme things like nullification, emasculation, castration, etc. They're not very strong tendencies. I'm just a nonfunctional or near-nonfunctional male, with no woman trapped inside or hatred of my own genitalia or anything of that sort.

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