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Are You Kinky?
Are You Kinky? I was reading a fellow bloggers blog and he stated, “I've come to the conclusion that there is just no way for me to enjoy just plain old, 'vanilla' sex anymore. I can't do it. I guess I've become so jaded or something, that just plain vanilla sex doesn't really do much for me. I've GOT to have something out of the ordinary going on. Some kind of kink or out of the normal or even weird incorporated in or else I'm just not satisfied.” Sexy is using a feather, kinky is using the whole duck That got me thinking about KINK ‒ Yes, smoke was coming out of my ears as the wheels of my mind were set into motion…lol. Anyway, what exactly does kinky mean? Well, according to the free encyclopedia, kink is a term used to refer to a broad range of sexual practices (sometimes referred to as "kinky") such as spanking, bondage, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism (BDSM). Kink sexual practices transgress what are considered "normal" sexual boundaries as a means of heightening the intimacy between sexual partners. Because of its relation to "normal" sexual boundaries, which themselves vary by time and place, the definition of what is and is not kink varies widely as well. For that exactly that reason - the definition of what is and is not kink varies widely, when I am asked if I’m kinky, I never know quite how to respond. By my understanding of the word, I consider myself kinky and respond yes to the question. Of course, the next question is, “how kinky are you” or “tell me about your experiences.” The following thought often crosses my mind ‒ Don’t you want to be surprised. Ok, when it comes to sex, most people like surprises but don’t want to too big of a surprise. For example, being submissive and finding out the other person is also submissive. Two dominants can have a good time but not 2 subs. Wanting to avoid such a mismatch, though I feel like I’m on an interview, I truthfully answer the questions. I prefer to talk in general terms about my sexual habits and preferences. Looking at the BDSM category (only a snapshot of sexual practices), on a scale of 1 ‒ 5, I rate as follows: 1) spanking ‒ 3.5; 2) bondage ‒ 5; 3) dominance and submission ‒ 5; and 4) sadomasochism ‒ 3. Spanking ‒ I show the “doubting Tom” a picture which usually provides the response, Damn that looks like it hurt. Lolol. There is a point where pain is pleasure and pleasure is pain. Not everyone understands that sensation. Bondage ‒ I produce more pictures. (Thanks to my voyeur friends with digital cameras…lol). Dominance and submission ‒ By this point, I feel like asking, Shall I give the names and telephone numbers of some of the previous Dominants in my life…ROFL! Sadomasochism ‒ If the person is still asking questions, I just shake my head. The Fetish Checklist on alt.com listed over 80 activities (see below) - So many practices and so little time…lol. 24/7 (Total Power Exchange) Age Play Anal Sex Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play) Ass Play Biting Blindfolds Blood Body Hair Bondage Branding Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc. Bukkake Candle Wax Chains Chastity Devices Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads Cling Film Clown Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc. Collar and Lead/Leash Confinement/Caging Coprophilia (Shit Play)/Scat Cross Dressing Cuckold Cupping (Suction of the Skin) Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears) Defilement, seeing a partner dirty or wet Denim Depilation/Shaving Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons) Discipline Doctor/Nurse Fetish Domination Ears ElectroTorture (EMS TENS units) Exhibitionism/Sex In Public Feathers Fire Play Fisting Food Play Gangbangs Hair Pulling Handcuffs/Shackles High Heels Humiliation Infantilism/Diapers Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema) Knife/Needle Play Lace/Lingerie Lactation Latex Leather Making Home "Movies" Masks Masochism Massage Master/Slave Masturbation Mutual Masturbation Nipples Oral Fixation Oral Sex Pain Pantyhose/Stockings Participating in Erotic Photography Piercings Pinching Play Piercing Podophilia (Foot Fetish) Pony Play Power Exchange The Rack/Medieval Devices Religious (Nunplay, Priestplay) Retifism (Shoes or Boots) Rimming Role Playing Rubber Sadism Scent Sensory Deprivation Sex During Menstruation Spanking/Paddling Talking Dirty Tickling Tongue Fetish Toys Transvestism Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine) Vibrators Voyeurism Whips My question is, WHICH ONE(S) ARE YOUR FAVORITE(S)? Have a kinky day! AKA{=} |
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10/5/2008 10:00 pm |
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I will try just about anything that doesn't involved urine/poop or blood. Beyond that, I'm like you: Surprise me baby! -tm
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Kinky yes, I have done more than I ever thought I would, but if the time is right and turns your partner on....well there is not much that I would turn down. There is still so many good things to try. Let me add one note - a very clean partner. Women Women everywhere and not a pussy to eat......
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10/10/2008 11:40 pm |
I recommend a little "light" reading: Different Loving, by Gloria Brame. Google Gloria Brame
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