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Polite Convo.. (some are allergic)
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Polite Convo.. (some are allergic) For the most part, I like to give what I want. You want honesty, I want it in return.. You dont want to be bullshitted... me neither. You want to be FISTED?...ehhh, i'll get back to you on that.. I came here to respect boundaries and look for someone that has a brain and sexuality that I can appreciate. But what I do not understand is there are A LOT of women here who are SEEMINGLY allergic to polite convo/chit chat. Every profile on here says "Not looking to fuck just anyone.." "Not looking just total strangers the first night." "Lets talk and see if theres common interests." Ok some of us get that, because WE dont want that. Well, some of us do- they just dont want to admit it and ruin their chances of getting laid.... I have read many profiles to gauge personality (or lack thereof) and send messages that say HEY- I liked the Star Wars reference. Ever been to the DARK side? You know, just trying to start a conversation. And its usually met with women responding like; "Why are you kissing ass? I know you just want to fuck." (Yea, I was confused too) So now im left with a confused brain because what I thought she wanted, she didn't actually want. Now shes pissed, and the dick is semi hard but quickly deflating in total confusion. I sure wish there was a manual on how to understand women. Even on a sex site. Think how rich that person would be. ~Linc was here.~ |
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Its sad to say but perhaps you get painted with a brush due to the volume and types of messages women do get on here. Perseverance to a point can pay off, but learning when to politely walk away is also key. Having said that I would count myself lucky if you get rude message back right away, close that door right away, you have dodged a bullet in my opinion.
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I came here to respect boundaries .... Maybe don't do that so much any more. Her boundaries? What's that on a hookup site? Not in the butt? Okay , don't do that. Her boundary is , "Won't have sex on the first meeting"....okay, but that doesn't really mean she "Won't have sex on a first meeting". You can still suggest having sex while you're sitting across from her AT a meeting... If she's into you, she will have sex with you. and look for someone that has a brain .....Why? This is a hookup site. How smart does she need to be to have sex, shake hands, and maybe hooking up now and then? and sexuality that I can appreciate. ..... That should be the number one item. But what I do not understand is there are A LOT of women here who are SEEMINGLY allergic to polite convo/chit chat. ..... Maybe, just maybe, they understand this is a hookup site and maybe, just maybe, they want some hard dick, not polite conversation. Your approach to some of these women needs to be sex-based, not , "I'm looking for friend", based. Every profile on here says "Not looking to fuck just anyone.."..... Don't let that deter you. She will fuck somebody, might just be you. Check her out anyway. If you get her to meet you, and you're sitting there talking, and she says, "I have to get to know you better".... Tell her, Good bye" , and walk away. Why? ....Because she is looking for a commitment. . "Not looking just total strangers the first night."...... Totally reasonable. That's why you immediately invite her to meet you somewhere for about 30 minutes. Kinda like an interview. Not a date. "Lets talk and see if theres common interests.".... Maybe she hopefully means, "Lets talk and see if I want to have sex with you". Reasonably, the common interest should be, "Getting some sex".... since "Getting sex" is why you're both on a hookup site. I have read many profiles to gauge personality (or lack thereof) .... Okay, but what for? You're looking for sex on this site. On Eharmony personality is important. On this kind of site, really the only thing that is important is: "Is she willing to meet? " [Perfiect]. "Is she a bunny boiler - psychotic?" [if seems like she is... avoid her]. "Does she talk about her kids?" [If she does, then avoid her...too much baggage]. and send messages that say HEY- I liked the Star Wars reference. Ever been to the DARK side? You know, just trying to start a conversation. ...Save that kind of stuff for the IRL meeting when she can sense goofing around. ....On the initial salutation, get to the point of contacting her.... Tell her you are interested in meeting her for a little while. Some women [especially men too] get these salutations wanting to converse ....and converse.....and converse seemingly endlessly online. ..... You want to avoid that. You want to get them offline to meet you within the day, or at most a couple days. The longer you allow to keep each other online, the more the competition piles up. And its usually met with women responding like; "Why are you kissing ass? I know you just want to fuck." .... See, she wants to get down to business. Tell those women, "Yes I do, lets meet and see if that is possible". If she doesn't like that, then she's a weirdo and really shouldn't be on a site like this. I sure wish there was a manual on how to understand women.... Sure.. but then you'd have to be concerned with who wrote the manual. That can go upside down real quick. In the meanwhile, if you don't like my advice... rely on common sense, consider the site you , and they, are on, and go from there.
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